Indeed, I forget where I read this but it's still on head.
"Look to the action you would to have accredited to you in the hereafter and perform it today and look to the action you would hate to have accredited to you in the hereafter and abandon it today!"
Most men die before their wives. Pay close attention.
It is not natural, destiny, or genetics.
Most men are slowly killing themselves, and nobody talks about it.
From the day a man becomes a husband, he becomes:
A provider.
A protector.
A problem solver.
But he stops being a human being.
He carries pressure silently.
He carries stress as if it is normal.
He carries fear as if it is a responsibility and never releases it.
Society has trained men to believe that a real man does not complain.
So what does he do?
He drinks.
He smokes.
He eats rubbish.
He sleeps late.
He wakes up early.
He walks like a slave.
He keeps telling himself, “I am fine.”
But deep inside, he is breaking.
Men die early because they are constantly in survival mode.
They deal with:
Bills.
Rent.
School fees.
Family expectations.
Work pressure.
Business stress.
Debt.
The worst part is that when a man is stressed, nobody asks him how he is doing.
They only ask one question: “Have you solved it?”
Nobody cares about:
His mental health.
His emotions.
Whether he is exhausted.
Because men are not loved for who they are.
Make no mistake: men are loved for what they can provide.
So a man keeps pushing until his body collapses:
High blood pressure.
Heart attack.
Stroke.
Kidney failure.
Then people say, “Ha! It was God’s time.”
No, it is not.
It was stress.
It was pressure.
It was years of carrying the world on his head without rest..
Let’s also talk about marriage itself.
Many men today are living with women who drain them emotionally.
They experience:
Nagging.
No peace.
No respect.
No appreciation.
Arguments every day.
Tension every day.
A man comes back from war outside, only to enter another war inside his own house.
That kind of stress kills faster than bullets.
The painful truth is that many men today do not even know how to take care of themselves.
They:
Ignore checkups.
Ignore symptoms.
Ignore warning signs.
Men are proud.
A woman will go to the hospital quickly.
But a man will say, “It is nothing,” until it becomes something.
Men die early because they are taught to be strong, but never taught to be healthy.
They are taught to provide, but not taught to rest.
They are taught to protect everyone, but nobody protects them.
That is why most men die before their wives:
Not because men are weak.
But because men are carrying too much pressure alone.
And they pretend it does not affect them.
If you are a man and you are listening to this:
Stop acting like you are invisible.
Your body is not a machine.
Sleep.
Eat well.
Train.
Go for checkups.
Reduce stress.
Most importantly, create a life where you have peace.
Peace is non-negotiable.
A MAN WITHOUT PEACE IS A MAN WALKING TOWARDS AN EARLY GRAVE
Lack of money can make a grown man feel like a cripple. It is not because his legs cannot carry him to anywhere he wants to go but there are places his empty pocket cannot take him. He can have great ideas, strength, experiences and willing to work, yet when money is not available, simple things become big problems.
He may want to provide for his family, solve problems, support others, pay bills or even pursue his dream, but when there is nothing in his pocket, he feels helpless. That feeling can be painful because family and society expects more from him. Nobody wants to hear, “I don't have money.” They simply expect him to do something.
Most of these men are not lazy. They wake up early, go out every day, hustle from morning till night, and still come home with barely enough to solve the problems waiting for them. Life is not always a simple equation of work hard and become rich.Sometimes opportunities are limited. The economy is difficult. Sometimes a man has responsibilities far bigger than his income.
And in some cases, despite his efforts, things simply does not work out the way he planned. A man can be hardworking and still be broke. He can be talented and still be struggling. He can have dreams, skills and determination and still need time, opportunity, connection, or simply a breakthrough.
Some people would tell him "don't worry, money is not everything", they don't understand that the lack of it makes him powerless and every other thing around him hard. There's a kind of silence that comes with financial hard*ship. Noticed but unexplainable.
May God give us money.
May God give us our money
May God bless us financially
May we never lack money
May we never borrow to survive
This is my humble prayer to you oh Lord Amen.
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"Computer science is no more about computers than astronomy is about telescopes." — Edsger Dijkstra
The man who invented one of the most famous algorithms in computing had zero patience for nonsense. He called Fortran "the infantile disorder." He said teaching COBOL should be "a criminal offence." And he refused to even touch a computer while designing his own theories — writing, "Medical researchers are not required to suffer from the diseases they investigate."
But his sharpest line might be his quietest one: computers are just the instrument. The real subject is something deeper — logic, structure, the nature of computation itself. Telescopes don't make astronomy about glass and mirrors. Computers don't make computer science about machines.
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Narrated Sahl bin Sa`d (RA): Allah's Messenger (SAW) said, "Whoever can guarantee (the chastity of) what is between his two jaw-bones and what is between his two legs (i.e. his tongue and his private parts), I guarantee Paradise for him."
(Sahih al-Bukhari 6474, Book 81, Hadith 63)
Sometimes, you look at yourself, and all you see is rough edges. You feel like you're not there yet. But you fear you're not making progress.
Look bro... God is still working on you. Those rough edges are part of His careful shaping, not a sign of failure.
If you remain yielded and patience, every season will work out His purpose.💜
Letting everything go its way...
All that we encounter in life, whether it's possessions, connections, or issues, they're all transient. By allowing all things to follow their natural course, we don't suffer loss but rather experience freedom. Much like how the sun graces us with warmth and light, appreciating each element in our lives while it lasts teaches us to immerse ourselves in the present moment.