if every woman agrees to potty train their son to sit while peeing, we can completely eradicate pee covered public toilets within 2 generations. let that sink in.
I respect a person who knows their energy is off, and stays their distance because they don’t want to transfer it off onto you... I don’t think some people understand how real that is.
when someone respectfully informs us that something we’ve said or done was hurtful, this shows that:
a) they trust us enough with their feelings to talk about it
b) they’re identifying behaviour that is a potential threat to the connection and value it enough to want to repair
When getting in relationships, which are completely voluntary, do we not find it bizarre that at times people choose not to give their partners the things that make them feel loved and safe? -thread