Okay switch this with Guam but just everyone who was raised on the island. Do what you need to grow but don’t bash the island saying there’s nothing here for you / or say you wanna get off this damn rock & then you show love for 🇬🇺when it only suits you.
when someone respectfully informs us that something we’ve said or done was hurtful, this shows that:
a) they trust us enough with their feelings to talk about it
b) they’re identifying behaviour that is a potential threat to the connection and value it enough to want to repair