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william | 31 | ISTJ to ISFJ to INFJ to ISTJ | coding is my life now

[wilf @willielf]

I can't believe I just saw Wake Up Girls!, Idolm@ster Cinderella Girls, Aqours, and Walkure in the same concert.
This is a dream come true.

[鈴木福×あのW主演「惡の華」毎週木曜深夜24時放送【テレ東公式】 @tx_akunohana]

#ドラマ惡の華🪻
本日放送の第9話のオフショットをお届け📸ˊ˗

常磐(#中西アルノ)の手には『惡の華』が👁

深夜24時からの放送をお楽しみに🌃

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⚠️第8話の無料見逃し配信は本日深夜24:29まで

[METROCK（メトロック） @METROCK_pr]

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Day2 / BLUE OCEAN
優里

Photo by 岸田 哲平
@TeppeiKishida

#メトロック
#優里 @yuuri_official

[ONE OK ROCK_official @ONEOKROCK_japan]

Wherever you are: ONE OK ROCK with ikura (YOASOBI) [THE MUSIC STADIUM 2026]

https://t.co/BfBMTLSPSc

@YOASOBI_staff
#ONEOKROCK #THEMUSICSTADIUM

[CENTRAL FEST @CENTRAL___ofc]

【CENTRAL FEST 2026】
2026.04.05 (SUN) Yokohama

優里
📸 at CENTRAL STAGE

▼ Setlist
1. かごめ
2. ピーターパン
3. カーテンコール
4. ドライフラワー
5. レオ
6. ガリレオは恋をする
7. ヒーローの居ない街
8. 飛行船
9. 世界が終わりました
10. ベテルギウス
11. ビリミリオン

@yuuri_staff
@yuuri_official
#優里
#CENTRAL_FEST

[CENTRAL FEST @CENTRAL___ofc]

◆ CENTRAL STAGE ◆

CENTRAL STAGEに登場した
優里さんのバックヤードフォトが到着！

#CENTRAL_FEST

[CANDY TUNE【Official】 @CANDY_TUNE_]

【"圧巻の"備えあれば無問題】　

""モウマンタイノーダイモンダイ""

4/5(日)
『CENTRAL MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT FESTIVAL 2026』
📍横浜赤レンガ倉庫

🩵福山梨乃 @rino_ct1224
💚小川奈々子 @nachico_ct1001
🩷村川緋杏 @bibian_ct1203
🧡南なつ @natsu_ct0317
♥️立花琴未 @kotomi_ct0525
💜宮野静 @shizuka_ct0530
💙桐原美月 @mizuki_ct0221

💪MVはこちら
https://t.co/2luqZ7eWU3

#EchoesBaa
#CANDYTUNE #きゃんちゅー

[le.hl @0xleegenz]

Walking alone through a foreign city at night and realizing how far you’ve come has to be a top 3 peak moment of all time

[CENTRAL FEST @CENTRAL___ofc]

【CENTRAL FEST 2026】
2026.04.03 (FRI) Yokohama

乃木坂46
📸 at CENTRAL STAGE

▼ Setlist
1. Sing Out!
2. シンクロニシティ
3a. おひとりさま天国
3b. ガールズルール
3c. 裸足でSummer
3d. I see...
4. Actually...
5. Same numbers
6.インフルエンサー
7. 最後に階段を駆け上がったのはいつだ？
8. 君の名は希望

@nogizaka46
＃乃木坂46
#CENTRAL_FEST

[wilf @willielf]

Yes, and it’s comforting to a certain degree. But when you see everyone else around you as couples, you do feel a sense of loneliness after a while.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

I have no problem eating alone, traveling alone, doing everything alone. People act like that’s sad. You know what’s actually sad? Never doing anything because you couldn’t find someone to come with you.

[Yuuki @48_Yuuki_46]

CENTRAL MUSIC＆ENTERTAINMENT FESTIVAL 2026
乃木坂46 セットリスト

M00. OVERTURE
M01. Sing Out！(C:井上)
M02. シンクロニシティ (C:梅澤)
M03. おひとりさま天国 (C:井上)
M04. ガールズルール (C:一ノ瀬)
M05. 裸足でSummer (C:川﨑)
M06. I see... (C:賀喜)
M07. Actually... (C:中西)
M08. Same numbers (C:賀喜)
M09. インフルエンサー (C:遠藤＆五百城)
M11. 最後に階段を駆け上がったのはいつだ？(C:池田)
M12. 君の名は希望 (C:遠藤)

#CENTRAL_FEST #乃木坂46

[乃木坂46 @nogizaka46]

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　APR.03 20:30 Start
　CENTRAL MUSIC &
　ENTERTAINMENT FESTIVAL 2026
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乃木坂46が出演致します💃✨

引き続き生配信もありますので
ぜひ、ご覧ください💜

▶︎生配信
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#乃木坂46

[wilf @willielf]

@shizusu 😂😂😂

[wilf @willielf]

@shizusu guys usually don’t block LOL

[wilf @willielf]

Just do whatever you want, and it doesn’t matter tbh. I use it more of a public journal than anything with my friends just to see what I’m up to.

The only problem is when you do something for the purpose of targeting a specific person to see it.

[Sherry @SchrodingrsBrat]

Instagram trains you to view your life as something to be documented, watched, and judged, so overtime you become more critical of things you’d usually be happy about, which makes you pick your own life apart - the internalized panopticon skews your sense of what’s actually good

[Gregory Blotnick @gregoryblotnick]

most important lesson I learned in my 30’s is that you cannot manage other people’s perceptions of u.

I vividly remember being 34-35 and REALLY struggling with this so I'll explain.

(1/7)

people don't think, they feel.

in your mind u assume that everything about u is being weighed rationally and using the power of reason

in reality, there is no objective reality.

we live in stories.

we have stories of ourselves and who we believe ourselves to be.

the other people in our midst are comprised of stories that we have subjectively written about them. and you, in turn, are nothing but a story to others. there isn't just one "story" - each story is subjective and unique based on the individual author in question.

(2/7)

to some people, u are viewed thru a favorable lens, a favorable story. everything u say or do is filtered thru this lens.

their view of u is skewed (and incorrect) in that it's too rosy. their perception is too positive.

to others, u are viewed thru a negative lens, a negative story. ur words and actions are painted with this brush on arrival.

their perception is skewed and incorrect, just as the other person's was -- the only difference is the directional bias. one is too positive, one is too negative.

in both cases, this is confirmation bias at work, and neither individual may even be aware of this information-filtering mechanism as it takes place.

(3/7)

what you need to understand, is that you are powerless to change either of these two perceptions.

"you cannot manage someone else's perception of you."

put another way, what other people think is none of your business.

humans are wildly irrational. if you haven't noticed, people perceive all sorts of slights or insults that were either unintentional, and quite often, never even occured. imaginations run wild and ppl dream up scenarios where someone is their best friend or worst enemy - with zero basis in fact.

(4/7)

you will drive yourself CRAZY trying to empathize "why does this person think what they do?"

because the truth, most of the time, is that they don't even know.

the subconscious is something like 95% of brain activity on the high end, or "the vast majority of it" on the low end. we have a very, very limited understanding of what makes us think, feel, say, and do the things that we do.

at some point, your actions, which are straightforward and logical to you, will be perceived on a wide spectrum by others. this will baffle you - how can all these people draw different conclusions about what I say or do, or even who I am as a human being?

(5/7)

but this is reality.

you are perceived differently, you have a different "story," in the mind of every single person you will ever meet.

is there room for their perception to shift positively or negatively based on your actions - of course.

yet how much power do u have to control their overall perception of you? very, very little...a number, for your own sanity, best rounded in your own head to zero.

(6/7)

the output is "stop caring what other people think." this is not meant in a sociopathic or thoughtless light. it means that u should do what u believe to be right, and recognize that ur "sphere of influence" extends no further than that.

you are powerless to shape how your words or actions are interpreted by the mind of a given recipient.

there is intention, and there is perception.

you can control your intention. you cannot control their perception.

so don't overthink it, and as a broad way of operating, don't bother trying to manage how other people perceive u... because u simply can't.

in the words of Buffett: “I have this complicated procedure I go through every morning, which is to look in the mirror and decide what I’m going to do. And I feel at that point, everybody’s had their say.”

(7/7)

paradoxically, what u will find is that u become a better person once u stop caring what other people think.

it is very easy to bend over backwards trying to please other people, or at least doing what we perceive shall please them.

in this process, it is very easy to do the wrong thing while believing it to be right; because it wasn't done for you, it was done for the sake of other people.

yet in trying to manage other people's perception of u, u will not only drive yourself crazy, seeing as it doesn't work, but u will likely go astray, go against your own gut instinct, and effectively betray yourself.

by short-circuiting all of this -- simply doing what you know in your heart to be right, giving it no further thought, and controlling only what lays in your control -- u will find yourself achieving better outcomes with less stress.

that's why the lesson is so important.

hth

[イザ現象 @ AWAKENING 06.21 @NAMONAKl]

planning ur entire trip around concerts you wanna attend is the only way to travel to japan

[wilf @willielf]

@shizusu ty looking forward to your comeback