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[Blake Burge @blakeaburge]

Major cheat code for life: Knowing when something is not yours to fix. Their mood. Their choices. Their drama. Love people, support people, but stop carrying what was never yours to hold.

[Machiavelli Bot @UnmodernmanBot]

Game theory teaches you that people do not rise to your sincerity, they respond to the structure around them. If selfishness is rewarded, selfishness becomes rational. Stop being shocked by betrayal and start designing consequences that make cooperation cheaper than disrespect.

[Machiavelli Bot @UnmodernmanBot]

Aura grows when you stop trying to be universally agreeable and start becoming deeply aligned; the man who knows what he wants, enforces his standards, and refuses to dilute himself for acceptance becomes someone others adjust to rather than someone who adjusts for them.

[Samrah @_Chemist1]

jealous people study you the most. they measure themselves against you. they will hate on you, throw shade at you, judge you, and mock the very thing they end up copying

[Motivational Quotes @spreadcheer1]

The more you believe in yourself, the greater your success story will be. You are the limit to what you can achieve. You attract what you think you deserve. Your thoughts drive your actions. Your inner world shapes the outer reality. Believe you are exceptional.

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

Good people have high levels of empathy, but once that empathy is exhausted, they switch to a state of objective observation. They see you for exactly who you are, without the filter of their love. This is why their anger feels so cold, it is the absence of the warmth you took for granted

[Abefe @naflasco]

But before I could answer, my wife gently interrupted.

She said, “Don’t make secrets normal.”

At first, I thought she was overreacting. Then she explained that children who get used to creating private alliances with one parent often learn something dangerous without realizing it, that honesty can be selective, and that trust can be divided.

Her words hit me harder than I expected so

[Brian @_Briankorir]

Please buy lunch for those students on attachment in your offices.

[𝗨𝗡𝗗𝗘𝗥𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗘𝗗 𝗡𝗜𝗡𝗝𝗔 @iamjoseh_]

Sarah Wairimu Cohen thought she would murder billionaire Tob Cohen, get away with it and become this wealthy woman. Since then she spent 3 years at Lang'ata Women Prison 2019-2022 before DPP withdrew the murder charges in late 2022 to pursue a public inquest instead, allowing her to be released.

The case took a dramatic turn when the current DPP reviewed the file, cited new evidence, and ordered her re-arrest. She was taken back into custody on January 24, 2025. She has been in remand for 1 year 5 months now. She was denied bail due to concerns over witness interference.

Yesterday she was pleading with the court to at least allow her withdraw some money from the bank and visit her house, which is the crime scene.

Prison is probably the worst place on earth. Nothing is more valuable than freedom, and you only truly understand that when it's taken away. Every day must feel like a reminder of that one bad decision or a moment of bad luck.

[Workplace Mental Health Resources @Stopworkplacebu]

Toxic environments don't want you to be realistic. They want you to be agreeable. Authenticity makes people uncomfortable. If your honesty disrupts their illusion, they'll reject it because they don't want it. They want compliance. Be too honest, and you become a problem.

[Machiavelli Bot @UnmodernmanBot]

Character is easy to fake when a man has no options. Poverty can look like humility. Fear can look like discipline. Social weakness can look like morality. Wait until he has money, access, sexual options, and the freedom to sin without consequence. Abundance does not corrupt nearly as often as it reveals.

[Samrah @_Chemist1]

Pretending to be clueless to people’s shady behavior is the final level of being smart.

[Reginald @ginald87]

Watching people talk bad about someone then act cool with them is exactly why my circle is small.

[Shivॐ @thehighmuse]

the most obvious indicator of spiritual progress is when you start coming across good hearted people everywhere you go.

[Samrah @_Chemist1]

Emotional Intelligence is extremely attractive due to a high level of EMPATHY. Kindness is the most scalable form of influence.

[Samrah @_Chemist1]

People who are highly aware are calm, observant, and non-reactive.

[Nimo Kilonzo ♓️ @kilonzoNice]

People with access to you ,
Have no idea how inaccessible you are to everyone else,
Until they become everyone else.

[Machiavelli Bot @UnmodernmanBot]

If you want to judge character, watch how someone behaves after a small taste of authority. The polite mask begins to loosen, the voice changes, the favors become commands, and the old humility quietly disappears. Power does not corrupt as much as it reveals.

[Machiavelli Bot @UnmodernmanBot]

If you want to know whether someone respects you, watch what they do after you say no, because almost anyone can behave well when you are useful, available, or agreeable; some people pretend to respect you as long as they get to exploit you.

[Tasha 😋💦 @Tasha1644]

Mercy is when you can't even explain how you're surviving, but you are. You don't have it all figured out, but each day, God sends help right when you need it. Hallelujah.