we don't talk ENOUGH about Janine's growth from being a crackhead, she really fought through addiction for her kids, got her man back, gave him two more kids, grew so much, helped her drug partner d*e peacefully and got prettier every season. talk about character development!!
you & your partner owe not a single soul an explantation for how you pursue your relationship. How quickly it progresses or how slowly you take things. Your relationship is on YOUR terms and follows YOUR rules. idc what nobody say.