individuals who were coddled by their parents growing up, tend to carry that victim complex into adulthood. it looks like them making excuses instead of finding solutions. it looks like them not believing that they’re capable of improving without the help of an authority figure.
My best friend’s fiancé just texted me to ask if I could check in with her and plan a lunch/dinner because “she hasn’t been herself lately” and he thinks some friend time would cheer her up.
I’m finna cry cause that’s so sweet, thoughtful and loving.
Trauma makes you tolerate a lot of shit you don't deserve because you don't want to lose people. Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve to be in your life, no matter how much you love them.