According to attachment theory, genuine love is reflected in how someone responds to your pain, not just your presence. When someone truly values your wellbeing, their deepest fear isn't losing access to you, it's causing you harm. But when someone only loves what you provide for them, they fear losing their supply, not hurting your heart. This subtle difference reveals everything about whether you're loved for who you are or what you give. Notice which one keeps them awake at night.
You'll fall deeper in love when you realize that your lover doesn't exist to satisfy your every whim and desire and it's not their responsibility to provide everything lacking in your life, like some kind of divinely ordained human-shaped vending machine. When you let go of this, and just focus on loving them, that's the secret doorway to getting everything you ever wanted.
Quit porn = energy back.
Make money = confidence back.
Pray = discipline back.
Train body = dominance back.
Be kind = respect back.
Your life isn’t meaningless.
Reclaim control.
I trust women, I don’t trust the nature of women
Whether she is a good woman or not, her nature is same
1. She is loyal to her emotional, hence her actions, words are influenced by what she is feeling at the moment.
2. She is more concerned about how she looks in the eyes of others. Such character will make you lack self awareness and finite resolve
3. Women don’t love, they love how you make them feel
4. Her desire to satisfy her feelings will outweigh her promise to you
5. She views reality based on what she has convinced herself in her mind. She can tell you she cheated because she was angry with you and she actually meant it. Delusion from actual reality.
6. Attention is her greatest weakness. I can’t trust someone that crowd and spotlight can turn them against you
I dint think it's the love of money, but the lack of it.
Empty pockets breed the insecurity and low self-esteem that actually drive a lot of people into mess. People sell themselves short, stay in bad situations, and make desperate calls because they feel small without money, not because they worship it. Hunger and shame do more damage than greed ever does.
You may need to heal if you still see attention as affection, attachment as connection, codependency as support, disagreement as an attack, enmeshment as intimacy, lack of boundaries as empathy, external validation as internal self-love, and trauma bonding as healing.
exhausted by love which is rooted by inconsistencies, lack of values, effort and reassurance in the name of fear and greed. may genuine reassured love always be rooted in refuge, your heart should uphold the sense of security when indulging with another instead of fearing it .
This generation turned:
- Gluttony into Foodie
- Promiscuity into sexual liberation
- Nudity into body positivity
- Bleaching into skin care
- Prostitution into escort services
- Drug abuse into just having fun
- Lack of decency into “A queen and more”
- Lack of accountability into living your best life
- Toxicity into “That’s who I am”
- Nonsense behaviors into zodiac signs.
- Ingratitude to knowing your worth.
- Laziness to protecting your peace
- Greed to being ambitious
- Cheating to being street smart
- Avoiding responsibility to self care.
- Inconsiderate to being misunderstood
- Unforgiving to boundaries
- Self centeredness to self love
- Lack of emotional intelligence & being rude to being blunt.
It is very scary and pathetic and the ripple effect of this wokeness in the coming years is going to be devastating to the society.
Don’t get married if you have not overcome LUST (lack of sexual discipline), SELFISHNESS (it’s all about me), GREED (love of money and things), and PRIDE (unwillingness to humble yourself). Otherwise, you will eventually tear your family apart.
Counter:
Money DOES change people, because people are not finished products.
Poverty forces humility, generosity, patience. Not because you're a good person, but because you have no choice. Wealth doesn't just "reveal" you, it rewires you. It changes your fears, your friends, your options, what you can get away with.
A man who was kind when he had nothing to lose, and cruel when he has everything to protect, wasn't secretly cruel all along.
He just became someone else when life changed.
LOVE ALWAYS 💖
Oh Lord, if I worship You because of fear of hell, then burn me in hell.
If I worship You because I desire paradise, then exclude me from paradise.
But if I worship You For Yourself alone, then deny me not, your eternal beauty.
The things that matter most in life are not for sale. You cannot swipe your card for discipline, you cannot order integrity online, and no amount of money will buy you genuine respect. A strong body, a clear conscience, real love, and peace of mind.
Every single one of those has to be earned through how you live.