idk if it’s a red flag but sometimes when I don’t feel like talking, I won’t. I won’t text back, call back, nothing until I feel like talking. and when I need a break, I’ll stop talking to EVERYONE.
Don’t ignore me. You can tell me you don’t wanna talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case.
Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.
Can we talk about the mental damage this does? The disappointment teaches you to not have expectations & to not feel those emotions of excitement out of fear of being let down, again. Your word is everything! Please stop making promises you can’t keep or don’t intend on keeping.
this is my season of showing up for myself. I’m willing to do more than I’ve ever been willing to do to get better. even if I don’t have any help, any shortcuts, any support. imma just show up for me like I’m all I got!!