basically everybody cheats, man and women, its just how life works
just accept it n move on, you certainly might not get cheated on or you may hold enough power where you can give someone an ultimatum, but cheating is within all of us
&most people dont give a fuck about morals
Nah, the man most likely to cheat on a woman *in an embarrassing way* is the lifetime loser who glowed up
The most likely to cheat is the man with options but guys who are used to having options know how to cheat in non-wife/gf-embarrassing ways
Some women even demand it
I'm fairly publicly an atheist and I *hate* the atheist trope about how atheists help people whole Christians just pray to a fictional god and don't do anything.
The opposite is very literally true.
Christians tend to put their money and effort where their mouths are in real ways. Not all, but more than enough.
Atheists..... Don't.
I wish they did, but I know hardly any atheists who even have strong roots in their communities, let alone do stuff like foster or adopt kids, start food banks and hospitals, run orphanages, set up private schools, etc. Religious people in the US, to their credit, actually do most of that stuff.
during any moment of ur life, you're always only 4 weeks away from making a noticeable change in who you are. everything could literally change tomorrow. beliefs u currently have can shift onto something else in a heartbeat. and that's fine. one day you'll have a wife and kids. one year from now ppl who you're close to could cut ties with you, and you can end up in a completely different circle. same time next year you could be sipping dom pérignon with a cute polish girl, celebrating 2 commas in ur bank account & a lean physique, due to the relentless amount of hard work you've put in. on condition u stay in the game, you'll never lose motion.
don't dwell on the past, be grateful for great things that'll happen in the future.
any competent "dating coach" will tell you this anyway
the best strategy for dating apps for example is to, as a goal move to either call or video call or directly schedule a date asap
that way you have her undivided attention and the actual opportunity to build rapport
If I were a young and single man, I think I would just avoid texting back and forth and would focus on taking women out to do fun stuff. Nothing big but it seems like people spend so much time texting back and forth and this is not really how intimacy forms. Text is so compressed. Phone calls less so but the best way to form closeness is in spending lots of time together. You could put two compatible people together for a few hours and it could cement a whole relationship.
one of the most liberating realizations a human can have:
almost all of your thoughts are completely useless, wrong, and meaningless.
they are just biological feedback from a dysregulated nervous system, old childhood defense mechanisms, and genetic conditioning.
@SpencerBar47026@CovfefeAnon wait really? mind sharing?
i know you can use data to pretty much say anything and there's data against what he said anyway. i just didn't address it bc no need - the data he provided isn't really relevant to my point - but still
@reilysmith94@CovfefeAnon When the relationships aren't exclusive or serious I think it's really dumb to call that cheating.
It's like rape, where the same word is used for when someone removes the condom or like gets someone drunk and violent forced penetration for hours
ps the above are just examples
@reilysmith94@CovfefeAnon being against premarital sex from a secular "moral" view is completely stupid but cheating would be immoral presumably due to you lying about not cheating
but i agree with you
the best things to make LIFELONG FRIENDS who'd go to war for you is
fraternities and actual war
there's something about enduring hardship, stress, and shared suffering alongside other men that creates a bond almost impossible to replicate anywhere else