@populusaigeiros And let me tell you about the pool guys we called. the best. Done the best pools all around the world. If you've seen a pool at a nice resort, it was probably them. They love pools, so they tell me
@kenzietuff Easiest way I've gotten mine to stop stressing about "the rules" is having more kids. Either because her lizard brain is relaxing, realizing that she has enough that she doesn't need to be hyper protective, or understanding that it's simply too onerous