@TheDevileTaylor@refxlection She actually realllly doesn’t and your sending her a message when she had so clearly stated that she doesn’t want any comments is not helpful at all and you’re actually fucking sick for doing that
you touched your partner who in turn communicated that they wanted you to stop and in response you cried, developed a fear of initiating, and became nauseated at the idea of intimacy because they told you to stop incorrectly??
yall looooove being victims lmaooo
story time! I had brought up using safe words with my ex which we agreed to and not too long after I grabbed her ass while we were spooning and got immediately safeworded. She didn't understand why I started crying on the spot and then I had a fear of initiating intimacy after
@straw_finn@flirtygcf@JCcannon367061 Being upset is fine but crying, screaming, throwing up and victimizing yourself when being met with a safe word is repulsive in any instance
I don’t mind that she did this, it’s actually funny even tho I’m not very partial to her. My issue is that she acts like it’s not meant to be shady. She too committed to her victim mindset frfr
so instead of having a private conversation with drew about the bill she received from her hoa for the horse, shamea thought the best course of action was to serve drew with an invoice for $2200 at k michelle’s listening party?🥴 #rhoa
@TeamReptyle op is the one who introduced the concept and then freaked out when the concept was misused. They are not a victim in this I don’t know what else yall want me to say lmaooo
Litigating "when" your partner is "allowed" to safeword is fucked. You haven't done something wrong just because someone safeworded. But if you can't react calmly and kindly to safewording in any situation you aren't safe to play with.
@thirdking0208 she’s got a long walk back I can tell you that because they way she tried to victimize herself has failed miserably and it’s not conducive to an ensemble cast situation
I don’t like Shamea, but on the surface, I have no issue with her coming back. That said, I wonder how she’ll restore some of those burned bridges.
Shamea’s cast isn’t going to give in to her victim mentality, and she doesn’t want to be a villain fr. She’ll have to fix things.
@isablyatta you see how no is not sufficient for you lmaooo bc what is expanding the conversations vs moving goalposts on a specific topic If I had a safe word with you, I’d clearly need to use it
maybe the problem is that too many of yall are engaging in sexual practices that require a level of emotional intelligence and regulation that you simply do not have??? You wanna tie someone up but can’t handle being told no to non-bdsm touching incorrectly??