@prasanna_says@KennethFolk Bahiya Sutta is the only one that I recall from my limited reading where someone became arahant listening to Buddha just once. Most of others either received the teachings many times along with their practice or became sotapanna on first hearing.
what therapy has given me is the ability to communicate better even when in extremely difficult situations or when I’m feeling super triggered. what mindfulness has given me is the ability to feel baseline calmer and happier
@ftlsid Few things that can help here
1. Look up 16 nanas/7 stages of purification (helps understand where you are and what to focus on)
2. Incorporate metta based meditation. Helps creating higher sense of ease outside of practice even with baseline adaption.
I think a lot of neurotic unhappy people who cultivate such unhappiness (rather than, say, due to chronic pain or recent family deaths) see happy people and wonder "they must be taking the easy road, you're not supposed to be happy like that".
But often what I notice is that being unhappy is really the result of taking the easy road (keep doing the same mental moves, the same cozy unhappiness, never challenging the chronic factors that keep you down) and that really happy people are actually taking the brave, effortful path instead. This is definitely the sense one gets when one starts to do Jhana practice in earnest (much less so during period where it feels effortless, which flips the script).
I think a lot of neurotic unhappy people who cultivate such unhappiness (rather than, say, due to chronic pain or recent family deaths) see happy people and wonder "they must be taking the easy road, you're not supposed to be happy like that".
But often what I notice is that being unhappy is really the result of taking the easy road (keep doing the same mental moves, the same cozy unhappiness, never challenging the chronic factors that keep you down) and that really happy people are actually taking the brave, effortful path instead. This is definitely the sense one gets when one starts to do Jhana practice in earnest (much less so during period where it feels effortless, which flips the script).
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@omnamaste@TimGiro69@algekalipso It is a practice yes, but over a period of time it becomes a general way of being (in my experience) or in other words “achievement of a state”.
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