Buying a house is so much easier than building a home; having kids is so much easier than being a good parent; throwing a wedding is so much easier than living a great marriage; getting rich is so much easier than living a wealthy life; most people lose track of the actual goals:
The Path of a Man is full of sacrifice, struggles, and confrontations with inner demons.
So, if you see your brother with alcohol, drugs, or mental issues, help him, because he is at war.