Not exaggerating when I say the future depends on this catching on en masse. Kids, adults. Book clubs, silent reading groups. For the past twenty-five years tech has corroded our attention, intelligence and basic pleasure in living, and books are the key to winning them back.
Search is full of ads and wrong answers. Every other email is an ad. Prime Video charges you and shows ads. Paramount? Ads. Peacock? YouTube? Hulu? Ads followed by more ads. Netflix full of ads. Meta and X, every other thing is an ad. Pinterest is nothing but ads. AI is in everything. AI finishes sentences incorrectly and wonât stop. AI reads your email and search history to target you with more ads. Every time you open an app or visit a site thereâs an update making it worse. In a hurry? First, click here to agree to terms you donât have time to read and must accept. You need an account to do that. Change your temporary password. Enter your 2FA code. Check your email and enter that code. Now use a passkey. Your password is too simple to remember. Change it. No, not like that. Now log on. Enter your 2FA code. Check your email for a code⊠Welcome back! Weâve updated our terms of service and privacy policy (you have none). Subscribe to the site. Subscribe to Netflix. Subscribe to toilet paper. Subscribe to these groceries. Pay a membership fee for the right to subscribe then tip your driver who delivers the subscriptions your membership lets you subscribe to. Time to work? Weâve got to update your laptop and will slow down everything you do until you agree to update. But first, click here to agree. Update installed â your laptopâs broken now. It doesnât matter, since your boss just replaced you with AI. Go to your phone to complain on social media. Wait, your phone needs an update so we can add more AI. Click here. Oh sorry, your phone canât handle this update. Now itâs useless. Go get the newest phone. Hereâs a text from a friend, an email, a voice mail they left three days ago but you didnât see until now because of sync problems with the cloud. Itâs their GoFundMe. Their MLM. Their Patreon. Never mind, you didnât respond to their text within 9 minutes and now youâre no longer friends. They blocked you. Make new friends. Download this app to find people in your area. In your neighborhood. On your street. Two doors down from you. Do you know this person yet, we think youâd get along. You need an account to use this app. That username is taken. Enter a password. Not that one, you used it on another site. You need to be connected to WiFi to download the app. Allow the app to connect to other devices on your network. Allow the app to access your contacts, know your precise location, store your credit card details. Oops, sorry, we got hacked now all that info is available on the web. Thereâs a class action suit. You can join. Itâll take a decade to get your $3.73 share of the ten billion settlement. Weâll send it via PayPal or deposit it to your bank, just tell us those details. Oh no, another hack. That info is circulating now, too. Hereâs a spam call, a spam email, a spam text. Why are you angry? Why are you talking about getting rid of your phone? Why donât you like AI, it lets us make all of this easier? Do you know how ridiculous that sounds? This is progress. Youâll be left behind. Do you want to be left behind? Do you???
I watched a guy on the bus today. 6:45 AM in the morning while jogging, His eyes looked heavy, like he was carrying the weight of an entire lineage on his shoulders. But immediately he sat down, he brought out his phone and started scrolling TikTok.
âAs a Biomedical Engineer, I wanted to snatch that phone from his hand.
âSee, let me tell you the bitter truth nobody wants to hear.
Most of you are not lazy or "unlucky." You are chemically sabotaging your own destiny before you even brush your teeth.
âThe first 60 minutes of your day is a war zone. Your brain is begging for direction. It runs on dopamine, thatâs the fuel for your motivation. But what do you do?
âYou wake up. Your eyes haven't even adjusted to the darkness of your room, and gbam, you pick up your phone.
âYou check WhatsApp to see who ignored you. You check X to see who is fighting. You check Instagram to see your mates buying cars you can't afford yet.
âYou think you are just "waking up," but scientifically? You are flooding your brain with cheap, unearned dopamine. You are frying your reward system. By 8 AM, your brain is already tired. It has consumed "content" but produced nothing.
âAnd let me speak to the men for a second.
âI write about men a lot because I see what you go through. The pressure is much. You wake up and the first thought is Rent, School fees, the woman you want to impress.
âIt is terrifying.
âSo, you grab your phone to escape. The phone is your pacifier. It numbs the panic of the morning. But that comfort is a lie.
âWhen you start your day with cheap dopamine, actual work feels like torture. You have programmed your neurochemistry to be a consumer, not a king.
âYou are training your brain to be weak in a world that eats weak men for breakfast.
âHere is the hard truth (and you can drag me if you like):
Your morning mood doesnât determine how your day goes. It determines your capacity to suffer for your success.
âIf you canât survive the first hour of the day without a screen, how do you want to survive the economy?
âProtect your first hour.
Don't touch that phone.
Stare at the ceiling. Pray. Do pushups. Go for a morning jug or walk.
Let your brain starve for a bit so it learns to hunt for the hard things.
âStop feeding your destiny to the algorithm.
Great video sent into us yesterday by Laurie Ferguson from Oscoda of blue ice on Lake Huron!
Blue ice is formed by wind driven, dense bubble free ice which absorbs red light and reflects a deep blue color.
Check it out!
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âWhat was a fantastic experience yesterday is what youâre going to feel entitled to today & is what will feel insufficient tomorrow.â
Robert Sapolsky explaining dopamine dynamics in humans (& why reward substitution & diversification in humans is so crucial).
I wasnât thinking about Pamela Anderson but letâs talk about her.
Pamela is a once-in-a-lifetime beauty. So striking she was offered a modeling contract after being spotted for a moment at a football game. That kind of beauty doesnât come around often.
Sheâs now 57. About to become a grandmother. And sheâs not clinging to youth the way so many of you seem to gloat about.
In the â90s, she knew what she was, a sex symbol. That level of attention is often lonely. But she fell in love and had children.
Now, in a world terrified of aging, she shows up to red carpets bare-faced. No Botox. No filler. Not even a hair and makeup team.
She used her beauty to build a life, love, legacy, and now, wisdom. And thatâs what sheâs passing on.
Grandmas donât need to be sexy. They get to knit. Paint. Bake. Watch their daughters become mothers.
A woman may lose her sexual capital with age. But her value? It evolves into something that the next generation desperately needs. May we all be blessed to get the opportunity to age because it isnât guaranteed.
Elon what if we call these âWhat did you get done this weekâ emails:
TRANSPARENCY
PRODUCTIVITY
STATEMENTS
**T.P.S. REPORTS**
(make sure they include a cover sheet)
People without college degrees saved us from a Kamala presidency. This is yet more reason why in most cases you shouldn't go to college and you shouldn't send your kids to college. The vast majority of people don't need it and in fact will be harmed by the experienced -- harmed financially, mentally, and spiritually.
I have no degree and I have never once in my life regretted my decision to skip college. I thank God that I didn't go. I don't know that I'd be where I am today if I'd spent the first half of my twenties in an indoctrination camp.
OMG WE DID IT GUYS.
THERE WILL BE A ZERO TOLERANCE FOR GROOMING AND TRANSING KIDS, WITH SEVERE CONSEQUENCES FOR DOCTORS, HOSPITALS, BIG PHARMA, AND SCHOOL OFFICIALS, AS WELL AS RETROACTIVE JUSTICE.