Don't allow privilege and comfort to blind you from how blessed you are, making you ungrateful.
You have what you have not because you are the best, but because you are LUCKY and BLESSED.
Arrogance and pride are inevitable when you forget these words.
Pride goes before a fall
If God created us in His likeness and image, and humans designed encryption to protect data from unauthorized access...what if God left a bunch of important information encrypted around, in everything we see, feel and touch and we need access to "public key(s)" to access them.
Carl Jung once said that one of the most destructive forces a person can carry is unused creative energy. if you have something in you that wants to be made and you keep refusing to make it, that energy does not just go away. it turns inward and starts working against you.
Pattern Recognition is also the form of intelligence that causes the most stress.
You will see things that others do not.
You'll feel crazy.
Things will be *so obvious* to you, and others will just deny it.
If you don't have a goal so meaningful it makes other people's opinions irrelevant, you will lose control of your life. You will adopt the goals assigned to you by your parents, peers, or society.
You can't make sense to, or have a dialogue with people who are ideologically possessed.
Its hard to talk to people who don't view things objectively , or a case-by-case basis.
Its hard to talk to people who always assume that another group is ALWAYS out to get them.
Teach your children how :
To think
To observe & deduce
..and when to change their mind & opinions when presented with new factual information
To act & make decisions logically with adequate amount of empathy instead of with "vibes"
More importantly do these things.
Be careful about believing what some "doctors" post on social media.
They've been indoctrinated to be against herbs & nutrition based treatment because its hard to profit from it.
Learn to read research papers yourself, carry out safe experiments yourself with food & herbs.
The people building great things aren’t immune to failure, they just have a better relationship with it. They understand it as part of the journey, a lesson in the course, and simply the cost of playing the game.
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself
I have a hard time believing that I am just unhireable. But I have an even harder time believing that my 25 years of experience is somehow negated by the format of my resume.
But, after over 2,000 applications, I am not sure what else to think. And, out of the dozens of emails (perhaps over 100) to hiring managers with inquiries about what might be happening, I have received ZERO response.
I have done some reverse engineering of some popular ATS systems and found some interesting trends; things like translating words like "founder" and "freelancer" to "unemployed", as one example (though, admittedly, the end user of the ATS is responsible for such translations). So, now add to everything else, I am being punished for running successful businesses for over a decade.
Kind of at the end of my rope here. I have to start thinking about what retirement looks like, and I am just plain NOT HIREABLE. Career change at this point doesn't seem likely. I have literally never done anything professionally other than write software (at least, not since college anyway). This is actually going to start affecting my way of life, my standard of living, not to mention the people that count on me to provide.
Please don't take this as anything more than venting. I am not blaming anyone, and I am not looking for sympathy. I know a lot of you are experiencing a very similar situation!
i love how people are saying "if we write a sufficiently detailed specification, the agent can write all our code"
do you know what writing a sufficiently detailed specification that deterministically maps to what a computer's actions is? it's coding
We should think more seriously about what we choose to build. Pushing people into debt, fuelling gambling addiction, and feeding endless dopamine loops cannot be the highest use of our talent and ambition.
Dostoevsky was 28 when they stood him in front of a firing squad. Blindfolded. Hands tied. He could hear the rifles being loaded.
At the last second a messenger on horseback arrived. The Tsar had commuted the sentence. The entire execution was staged. Psychological torture designed to break him.
It worked. He had a seizure on the spot.
They sent him to a labour camp in Siberia. 4 years. Freezing. Starving. Sleeping on wooden planks next to murderers. His epilepsy got worse. He had no paper. No pen. Nothing.
When he got out he was broke. His first wife died. His brother died. He inherited his brothers debts. He was so desperate for money he signed a contract with a publisher that would have given away the rights to everything hed ever write if he missed the deadline.
He wrote The Gambler in 26 days to make it. Dictated it to a 20 year old stenographer named Anna. Married her three months later.
Then the real work started. Crime and Punishment. The Idiot. Demons. The Brothers Karamazov. The greatest novels in the history of the Russian language. Maybe any language.
The man who stood blindfolded before the firing squad, who convulsed on the ground while soldiers watched, who slept next to killers in Siberia for 4 years, who was buried in debt and grief.
That man wrote: "every minute can be an eternity of happiness."
He earned the right to say it.
its never over. never give up fren.
I’ve made a conscious decision to finally delete TikTok and Instagram mainly because I’ve realized that I’m actually happy in my relationship but every time I open those apps I feel like my man is not doing enough.