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@Princesesa_Iman @Maritza_2101 @JoshuaJH532 @moses5892 @LukeFie60655631 @JA_CDR_Buff I agree. Debating trivial things can be fun with anyone really #CDR21

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@Princesesa_Iman @Jskak21 @Maritza_2101 @JoshuaJH532 @Colin_ethics I’ve always found that the reason I resent something is because it doesn’t benefit me as much as I’d like. It’s definitely helpful to acknowledge these feelings to ensure no further resentment can build #CDR21

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@maddym0945 yes I did! I cant wait to see what the final totals end up being for it #CDR21

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@Maritza_2101 @Princesesa_Iman @Jskak21 I think taking the time to prepare has changed the questions I ask in the moment a lot #CDR21

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@doni_e_blakaj Hot take: because of this class I now actively avoid conflict because of how good I’ve become at handling it #CDR21

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@laurenstotle @lilybuslerr @Maritza_2101 and most of the time people aren’t mad at the workers but the store, so I’ve found once you acknowledge their feelings they usually adjust their attitude towards you #CDR21

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@JoshuaJH532 @Colin_ethics @moses5892 It likely helps to have people close to you who accept you as you are, so you may have a better sense of self whenever it ends up being a more toxic situation. 2/2 #CDR21

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@JoshuaJH532 @Colin_ethics @moses5892 There are positives and negatives to changing oneself around others. Typically we revert to the negative aspects of it, but there are positives too. 1/2 #CDR21

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@Princesesa_Iman @brandothoughts1 I'm the same way. the self hatred aspect of it ends up just adding to it though. Like Brandon said, it just ends up being a feedback loop #CDR21

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@Maritza_2101 @Colin_ethics @JA_CDR_Buff it usually is not obvious but just the best course of action in the negotiation. I don't sweat it if it's not something I picked up on, but it is nice to learn and understand why it works for the future. #cdr21

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@JoshuaJH532 @hasz_jax @moses5892 I agree that it likely is not nothing. Typically when I am not in the headspace to get into whatever may be wrong it's easier to default to niceties- even when that may not be how I feel. #CDR21

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@moses5892 for sure. There’s so many celebrity horror stories where they feel they deserve better treatment because of who they are #CDR21

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@maddym0945 @laurenstotle that’s a nice way to reframe the situation so it feels less intense. I typically focus on status/rank more #CDR21

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@lilyodaspok the definition for criticism is given a more negative connotation than that of feedback. So it’s understandable that when people are criticized they may take more offense than if they were receiving feedback #cdr21

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@brandothoughts1 yes, like the negotiation we had where everyone automatically assumed one of the counties would have less power/authority to make the best deal for themselves. there is still room to gain something even if it may not seem like it #CDR21

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@Jskak21 @lilybuslerr I remember Professor Gray saying people’s reaction are usually trauma responses in these situations, so I imagine it would be this #CDR21

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@artfiend828 @lilyodaspok Which is so amazing! I think it’s great that we have been given these tools that we are able to use in our personal and professional lives :) #CDR21

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@moses5892 I agree! and brainstorming helps to make sure people’s interests are noted so everyone can be happy with the outcome of the collaboration #CDR21

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@Princesesa_Iman @lilyodaspok I don’t think it’s always helpful to have to decide on how you feel in the moment. It(in my experience) will not be accurate and may make things worse #CDR21

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@doni_e_blakaj @lilyodaspok I’m the same way. I usually talk to someone as a way to think out my problems and find solutions, as well as place how I feel about a given situation #CDR21