@johnsmithyson0 I mean, do you have any better plans that weekend?
If you do come, I recommend running some kind of event. Doesn't have to be much, but it goes a long way towards getting comfortable and integrated into the atmosphere.
@basilYam@LizzyStarrrdust Swear to god I just found an instagram post with the line "People who care don't need to be taught. People who need to be taught don't really care."
@basilYam@LizzyStarrrdust So if you have to vocalize, if you have to ask - then the man doesn't really want you enough. It breaks the frame and self perception of the woman. "Mind reading" becomes the test.