@Theholisticpsyc Alone. Both if my (dysfunctional) parents are dead. I'm single and spend most holidays alone. It's depressing but gets easier. Also complicated feelings of missing my family
If Laura Palmer had time to have several boyfriends, care for Johnny Horne, do Meals on Wheels, visit an agoraphobic recluse, go to high school, be a sex worker, and still write in her diary and get high every day; you have time to write your novel.
actually the point of life is to take a long walk in nature and give a cat some scritches under their lil chin and read books until your eyes canโt stay open
The universe is going to give you the exact same lesson in different versions over again until you master it. This is one of the most single important laws you can learn about the nature of reality. Everything else builds upon this.