🗣️ “When Jürgen Klopp arrived at Liverpool, he wanted to change the team’s training times. Most of us had trained in the mornings throughout our entire careers. Klopp, however, believed that if the team played most of its matches in the evening, our training should reflect that.
The reaction? Complaints. ‘The players started coming in and feeling like they were in a daze.’ A few of them approached me and asked, ‘Can’t we do this earlier?’
As captain, Jordan Henderson knocked on Klopp’s office door.
‘A few of the players aren’t happy with these late training sessions. Is there any chance we could train in the morning?’
Klopp looked surprised. ‘Who said that? Who’s complaining about it?’
Henderson refused to give him any names. After thinking for a moment, Klopp told him to pass on a message: if anyone had a problem with the training times, they should come and tell him directly.
Henderson passed the message on to the dressing room.
How many players went to speak to the manager about it?
None.
Not a single one even tried.
This anecdote is a masterclass in dealing with complaints: acknowledge the complaint, but don’t indulge it. Encourage people to take responsibility. Much of the noise disappears when accountability is required.
Research supports this idea. On average, we complain around 11 times a day, with three of those complaints happening before we even leave the house. We spend around 20 minutes a day complaining, which adds up to approximately 77 hours a year. That’s more than an entire weekend!
Complaining is mentally exhausting. Studies show that people who complain constantly feel more drained than those with a more positive outlook. When people work in groups, bonding often happens through shared complaining. According to research, a group can complain as many as 50 times in a single hour!
~ Professor Damian Hughes
Saw this video and can't stop thinking about it. Two men in a car run into attackers who double-cross them on the road. The driver doesn't panic. He stops, throws the car into full reverse and speeds backwards, staying steady enough to actually see where he's going, then turns and drives off as if nothing happened.
The guy beside him wasn't as lucky mentally. A few seconds into the reverse, he jumps out of the still moving car, rolls on the ground from fear, and ends up right back in front of the attackers. He obviously got seriously hurt doing the one thing that felt safe in the moment.
Both men faced the same threat. Only one kept his head.
It shows how much staying calm and actually knowing how to control a car in reverse can be the difference between walking away and not walking away at all. Most drivers never practice this until they're forced to.
The Assassination Attempt on the King of Ijebu-Ode: The 1934 Conspiracy
In Oct 1934, a royal assassination attempt shocked colonial Nigeria. The Awujale was shot in broad daylight in front of thousands.
It resulted in a massive, bewildering trial.
Here’s the story.
Two centuries ago, West African women scholars—the Yan Taru—walked hundreds of miles across the Sahel teaching Islam.
At the centre of this movement was Nigeria’s Nana Asma’u.
What happened to them?
Read in The Republic:
In 1991 Magic Johnson told the world he had HIV and walked off the court at 32. He is 67 now and worth more than $1 billion, and he built almost all of it after that day.
The most famous name in Los Angeles could not get a bank loan. 10 of them turned him down.
While he was still playing he asked Jerry Buss, who owned the Lakers, to teach him the business, and Buss opened the books to him. Then he got the names and phone numbers of everyone sitting in the courtside seats and cold called 20 of them for lunch.
He found that minorities were the largest moviegoing group in the country, and that nobody had built a theater in their neighborhoods.
"The demand was already there."
The 17 minutes attached to this post are him in a chair at Stanford, going through the deals themselves. Not the diagnosis. What he bought, and what the numbers did after.
Watch the part where he takes the founder of Starbucks to the movies.
He cold called Howard Schultz and flew to Seattle. Schultz told him Starbucks did not do franchises. Johnson said he was not asking for one, he wanted to be a partner and would put up half the money. Schultz said he would come and look at the theater first.
He picked the Friday Waiting to Exhale opened. 5,000 women were wrapped around the block. 20 minutes in, the whole house was talking back to Whitney Houston. Schultz pulled him into the lobby, said he had never had a movie going experience quite like it, and gave him the deal.
He did not sell anyone a demographic. He flew across the country and made one man stand in it.
They gave him 3 stores as a test. He took the scones out and put in sweet potato pie, swapped Lawrence Welk for Prince, and his per store numbers beat what Starbucks was doing itself.
3 stores became 125, in the neighborhoods everybody had told him would not pay $3 for a cup of coffee.
His first real estate fund raised $300 million. The second raised $600 million. The third raised a billion.
Everyone waits to be believed. Nobody wants the version where the proof only works if you stand somebody inside it.
Being right about a market is the easy half. Getting one person to come and look, after 10 banks have already said no, is the part you will not do.
Everyone assumes the name did the work. He says he expected it to be easier because he was Magic Johnson, and it turned out harder. The name got him the meeting. A Friday night in Crenshaw got him the deal.
Back to my convo with my Senior Friend...
He asked me questions about who i support...i explained. Then he hit me real hard....
" Oh common Genevieve, but you were such a vociferous supporter of Peter Obi in 2022/23...Recall we talked and you were a proud Obidient"...So what changed..( Big Laughter..😅😅😅)
My response👇👇
Yes I was...and I never regretted supporting Peter Obi. I did based on all information available to me...and some unnecassary sentiments...
Good tning is...i did my support solo, i never joined those obidient groups at all...i found them too TOXiC for my type 😅😅😅
Although i admit, i completely underrated who President Tinubu was/ is. I mistakenly relied on noise and rumours about him.....
And...oh...He shaa didnt help matters oo with his pretentious disposition of a sickly person ( 😅😅😅😅 more laughter)
........
Then he asked me the big question...
So what made you switch support to President Tinubu??...
My Response...
1) After he won...i started checking him out...and speaking to senior people in corporate and public world that are in my network....
I recall one of them, a CEO of one of the top 5 Banks said to me...
"Genevieve, I know you dey gbadu brilliant technocrats and strong willed people; if there is any civilian president that got those...It is President Tinubu.
Nigeria has never had a technocrat (chartered accounrant, finance expert, consultant and former corporate leader) as President...He is one. A QUANT HEAD!!...
2) He removed Fuel Subsidy totally and deregulated both oil and forex markets and held it down! ...something i preached on my facebook posts since 2009 because those TWO DEMONIC CHAINS would never let us move forward!!
I never saw it coming.
I was one of the few that supported GEJ when he removed fuel subsidy...so i got pained when he buckled!!🥲
3) I read his Renewed Hope Manifesto after he won ( didnt read it before then) and right there on pages 68 and 69 were his plans for FEDERALISM!...
I was like...that is Brilliantly Bullish...nobody has ever dared...and based on his footprints so far...he got the pathway so clear....
My senior friend threw another baaad question..." Arent you bothered about his not so good gists"😅😅
I shocked him with this response👇👇
Well...Nigeria is unique and very complex...it has a large DARK SOCIO-POLITICAL- ECONOMY controlled my multiple tiny mafia dens.....
ONLY A NINJA CAN KILL A NINJA
ONLY A MAFIA CAN KILL A MAFIA
😅😅😅😅😅😅
So yes i need a President Tinubu with the political will to get into their dens...and unleash their controlled areas....
He needs 8 years to execute..
Let him continue >>>>>🙌🙌
NEXT...
My senior friend's thoughts on Atiku Abubakar.
Ghana's health budget is 1.2 billion dollars, their population is 31 million Ghanaians, that will give you 41 million dollars per citizen.
Peter Obi, HOW?
One of the greatest cheat codes in life is to never get offended. Train yourself to have thick skin. Don't take things personally. Let others disagree with you. Being easily offended means you're easily manipulated. If you value peace of mind, avoid getting offended.
In the case of INEC versus Balarabe Musa (2003), the Supreme Court ruled that the Public Rules requiring public servants to be politically neutral and banning them from joining political parties or holding political views violates their Constitutional rights to Freedom of Association and Assembly under Section 40 of the Constitution.
What public servants are required to do is to be *politically neutral in the discharge of their duties..* That means that they should not favour a citizen because they belong to the same political party or discriminate against another because they are of a different political persuasion. But it doesn’t mean that they cannot be politically partisan.
Do you agree with the Supreme Court or do you think that we need to change our Constitution?
Whatever your opinion is, remember that I am Ezemmuo and that I know things.😊
"We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." - July 4, 1776
Words penned by men, most of whom owned slaves, to justify their break from British rule.
By "all men," they meant all white men and certainly not women. Had they truly believed Black people were created equal, there would have been no need for a civil war 85 years later fought substantially over the right to own them. Nor would it have taken almost a century after (99 years) until the Civil Rights Act of 1964 for Black Americans to receive the full protection of the Constitution those words claimed to guarantee.
But as Dr. Martin Luther King Jr reminded us: "The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice."
Even if the men of 1776 didn't grasp it themselves, they had perhaps unwittingly, set down a principle bigger than their own practice. A promissory note, as MLK Jr called it, that would outlast their contradictions and be redeemed by generations they never anticipated.
Reactionaries and the structures they build can slow down that arc, what they can't do is stop it. History bends, slowly, unevenly, but inexorably, toward a world where race, gender, religion, and status matter less, and shared humanity matters more.
I have done this with a few of my friend groups and with the right mix and management, it works magic. Just a token 5m-10m each a year builds up into over a billion naira in portfolio in less than 10yrs if you're just 10. Excluding full compounding effect. It's a crazy life hack.
The Cristiano Ronaldo aura cheat code in real life 😭 Danny Simpson was struggling on a date with Miss California in LA until Cristiano randomly walked up to give him a hug in the restaurant. A single hello from Ronaldo completely flipped her attitude from total disinterest to all-in. Off-Pitch assist at its peak.