all roads lead you back to yourself. to the standards you ignored, the boundaries you softened, the intuition you didn’t trust. life keeps repeating lessons until you finally listen, learn and become a better version of yourself.
Lying to someone who can read energy is wild behavior because they already know the true you from your body language. You can't fool someone with strong intuition who feels everything you're not saying. They're just waiting to see if you'll finally be honest.
Some people in your life have never seen you at your full capacity. They met you in a hard season, a transitional moment, a version of you still being built. Do not let their limited experience of you become your ceiling. You are more than the chapter they witnessed.
the hardest part about growing up is that the show must go on. you could be going through the roughest patches, the lowest of lows, or the basement of rock bottom with no sign of light. yet, you still have to show up, act your part, and be good at it.
the size of your life is up to you. that thought should terrify you and thrill you in the same breath. everything you are not is a choice. every limit is self imposed. every ounce of potential you haven’t touched is sitting there waiting for a version of you willing to reach for it. you can have anything you are willing to work for. so go work. go take it. stop admiring the life from a distance and go grab it.
menurutku skill komunikasi paling underrated itu silence.
seriusan, diam apalagi kalau ada orang yg ngomongnya nyakitin, ga sopan, atau kurang ajar, kasih jeda diem 5-7 detik sebelum kamu respon. kasih kesempatan buat otak switch dari reaksi emosional, ke mikir rasional, supaya kamu bisa tetap tenang, elegan, dan sepenuhnya in control.
aku baru sadar
ternyata orang nangis tu ga selalu karna sedih, bisa jadi karna akumulasi dari kemarahannya, tumpukan rasa frustasinya atau bisa jadi karna rasa capek yang lagi dialamin.
The older I get, the more I realize that one of the most attractive traits is genuine enthusiasm. It's energizing to spend time around people who show real excitement for life. For people, ideas, and tiny moments. It takes courage to care so openly. Enthusiasm is contagious.
i'm in love with this quote:
"if you're persistent, you'll get it. if you're consistent, you'll keep it. and if you're grateful, you'll attract more of it."
The highest wealth for a kid: growing up with two intellectually curious parents who have the courage to take risks, and who remain enthusiastic about their own agency and their own ability to write a great life story. That's the kind of parent you should aim to be.
I will never stop shouting this from the rooftops: the most underrated skill you’ll ever develop is the ability to genuinely enjoy your own life. Not someday, when you’ve healed enough, earned enough, or finally figured everything out. NOW. Because your life isn’t waiting for you somewhere in the future—it’s being built in the way you experience this ordinary Sunday, this cup of coffee, this conversation, this sunset, this breath.
Kayaknya sih bener ya. Emang the hardest part is the acceptance of knowing that your body can’t promise anything gitu loh.
Despite all the god damn effort you put in.