@stephen_john28 کہہ تسی صحیح رہے ہو، ہور بندا ایناں نوں کی کہوے؟
اسی اپنا شغل لا رہے ساں۔ آ کے کہندا نیاز حرام ہوندی اے۔ ہون جے اسی کہہ دئیے کہ ایہناں دی اپنی پیدائش وی حرام دی اے تے فیر اخلاقیات والے لٹھ لے پچھے پے جاندے نیں۔ 😵💫
ذمہ داری کا احساس ختم ہو چکا ہے
ذمہ دار اور ایماندار شخص اس ہجوم میں ذہنی مریض بن جاتا ہے۔
چوری اور تکا بازی اور جگاڑ ، اب یہ ہماری زندگی کا حصہ ہے۔
ایسا ہی ہونا ہے ایسا ہی چلنا ہے۔۔
Warning ⚠️: Long 🧵 🪡
I’m genuinely disappointed after reconnecting with many Pakistani male friends. More than 15 years have passed, and none of us are the same.
Some have done exceptionally well financially; others reasonably well. Some have families; others are separated or divorced. What shocks me is how many objectify women.
One was devastated when his wife divorced him after catching him cheating with his Russian assistant while she attended her mother’s funeral. His justification: “I’ve given her hundreds of thousands of dollars in diamonds. Every bag she owns costs over AED 20,000. Why couldn’t she forgive me once?”
I had no words.
Another jokingly asked, “What kind of woman are you that you’re with a man and still paying your own bills…more than him, by the look of it?”
Apparently, financial independence indicts womanhood.
Some women have internalised an equally transactional view of relationships. For some, a man’s worth is measured by how much he spends on them. Others want a prince while expecting little of themselves. There’s competitive flexing about how rich a husband or boyfriend is, with little concern whether the money is even halal or if he treats her well. The more he spends, the more it’s seen as proof of love.
The list goes on.
Perhaps I’ve simply encountered this subset in the region. Thank God I’ve had little interaction with Desis in Europe; that might have blown my mind further.
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