Except he told Buffy to kill him, and Buffy said she believed in him.
Except he did offer to leave and Buffy said she needed him, and he (unlike every other man in her life) listened.
Giles is the one who bailed on her when she needed him the most. What gives him the right?
Thinking about how profound of an impact that seeing Spike laugh with Joyce and Dawn had on Buffy.
It's very telling that this is what confirms Spike's feelings for her. A glimpse of the happy family life that she always craved from a partner and we never saw from Angel or Riley
Think this also comes down to characters' willingness to be accountable for the worst things they've done. There's a clear division with Angel and Xander, and even Willow. Spike never shies away from the worst bits of himself.
Yes! New material is fantastic, but if you're in a fandom that's been around for a hot minute (like, say, Buffy), there are so many legacy works that built fandom into what it is today. Read older fics!
The way that Buffy's "first priority" is to check on Spike and she puts her hand on his shoulder even though Xander is the one who's actually injured.
They share a very intimate look together and you can see how much they love each other.
And she was there believing in him when he couldn't believe in himself. At his most vulnerable. He doesn't have to ask her to see him the way he did Cecily. Buffy just does.
Men will kill your libido after you decided to have sex with them & then complain that you don't want to have sex with them
Dude I had already made up my mind about it I shaved EVERYTHING but then I saw you spitting on the floor and now I don't want you anymore and that's on you
@SpuffyFields And when Faith was annoying her by existing and Spike joked about killing her to cheer her up not only did it work but she even played along
Sorry but spike season 5 softening with Dawn and Tara, bringing flowers for Joyce, while still not having a soul alone makes him infinitely more redeemable than angel even before s6 and what he does between when buffy is dead BYE
Angel and Xander are the boys (men) that society has been pushing women into "choosing" while ignoring that they are emotionally and often physically abusive. But hey, they pretend to be nice so that's all that's important, right?