Your kid counts the number of bedtimes you miss.
Not just physically.
Mentally.
Don't comment. Put the phone down. Go be with your kids before bedtime.
They have 936 Saturdays before they leave your care.
Systems Dad always says, "Good mornings start with good nights."
Say good night to your precious child, and then be ready for a fun morning when they wake up.
- Pancakes
- Scrambled eggs
- Maybe some donuts
- Put it out on a platter and eat with your hands, or make it a sophisticated breakfast. NOTE: Plan this the night before so you know what kind of clean up you're in for.
- Get out Chutes and Ladders or whatever game they are currently into
- Focus on them.
I know you've got a ton of pressure at the office. I get it. I manage my own load, my own team, and two other program teams. The call from Slack is real.
Ignore it.
Be there.
You guys.
I just had @hark_labs track an email vote for a board, notify me when we had a majority, and draft an email back to the staff with the approval.
Underrated life advice: Be someone people want to share their good news with. Get excited. Hype them up. Make a big deal out of small wins. And never compare it to something you or others have done. We always remember who made the happy moments feel even happier. Be that person.
Meet more people.
Great day today, balancing being off and making great connections online and offline.
The throughline: systems are the key.
Imagine that.
Taking a systematic approach to everything I do (including using personal AI agents) has paid off so much this week.
@GallagherPreach Man, I'm in a similar boat, but mine's not telling me I'm a few steps away, probably being pragmatic, knowing that I'm the system's dad.
I wonder if this is the moment for @Muse /@bot / @hark_labs to push the "I'll read your cart and push grocery orders when it's at the lower prices" narrative.
I don't love surge pricing, but I understand where companies do it to take advantage of limited capacity.
True free market means we try to beat the house where we can.
The other way I see this going is that local grocers go even harder into being local. Some folks looking to escape the big brother feel end up going there.
Walmart and Kroger are quietly rolling out an internal store technology across America that could either modernize retail or bankrupt the middle-class family budget.
Starting across thousands of locations heading into 2027, traditional paper price tags are being ripped off grocery shelves and replaced with cloud-connected digital screens. Raise the price of bottled water by 20 percent the second the afternoon temperature hits 90 degrees. Surge the cost of ground beef, milk, and sandwich bread between 5 PM and 6 PM when exhausted commuters are rushing home from work. Drop prices at 10 AM on a Tuesday, then hike them right back up the minute the after-school crowd walks through the sliding doors.
Every price change happens wirelessly in seconds from a central corporate dashboard. No store employee has to touch a single shelf.
Walmart has already signed a massive deployment deal with VusionGroup to wire 2,300 American supercenters with EdgeSense digital shelf rails by 2027. Kroger is expanding its own Microsoft-backed system called EDGE across hundreds of supermarkets. Over 60 million digital price tags are already blinking on US grocery aisles right now.
This is not supply chain inflation. This is Uber-style surge pricing built directly into the shelves where Americans buy baby formula, eggs, and medicine.
Last week I sat down for coffee with a former retail pricing director who spent 14 years building supermarket margin algorithms before leaving the industry. What he shared over the table completely changed how I look at a grocery aisle.
"Retailers just turned static shelves into live stock tickers. The question is not whether grocery chains will use instant price changes, because they already spent billions installing the hardware. The question is how much extra money a family of four will lose every week simply because both parents work until 5 PM and cannot shop during off-peak hours."
Here is how the digital grocery pricing system actually works, how it tracks you in the aisle, and the exact phone settings and checkout playbook you need to beat it.
Veterans Day has always hit close to home for me. My dad and stepdad both served.
I grew up watching my dad. He did a full career in the Army, then went straight into the fire department until he retired.
I never wore the uniform, but watching how he carried himself left a permanent mark.
Three things he lived by became the way I operate:
- Discipline comes first. Know who you are, know your target, and do the quiet daily work to hit it.
- Brotherhood and trust. Build a circle of people you would trust with your life, at work and at home.
- Honor your word. Respect people, keep your promises, and do what you said you would do when nobody is looking.
Happy Veterans Day to everyone who put it on the line. Especially to my dad and my stepdad.