In this episode we talk about creepy men and the difficulty we have in bringing compassion to this problem. Often we react with anger and disgust, and often it is deserved. And yet this fails to solve the problem at its root. We hope you enjoy! https://t.co/upB9RkD3cw
Check out this video I released on relapses and porn addiction recovery! Also very relevant to other forms of recovery such as #eatingdisorders#bulimia#bingeeating
The best way to get someone to agree with you is to constantly tell them their opinion doesn’t matter, and to do everything in your power to alienate them straight into the arms of the people who value radically different things from you.
@lastpositivist There is a both/and here. High achievers think differently, and those patterns in cognition can be learned to increase the probability of achievement. Even if the system isn’t a perfect meritocracy.
@OlufemiOTaiwo I had a woman I dated mad text me months later about how I never kept things going with her. It seemed like she wasn’t interested, and not once did she text me. 🤷♂️
Really great book so far, although it seems to be a reduction to Integral Theory’s lower left quadrant of intersubjectivity. #gender#nonbinary#judithbutler#queer