loving curiosity towards every part of your being doesn’t just feel nice, it gives you access to way more information
including things that were previously buried under shame & guilty
relaxation = courage
what we think of as courage is our ability to take action in scary/difficult situations
aka our ability to move out of flight/freeze and into a calm, grounded response
which requires training our nervous system to be calm in situations where it’s typically agitated
and the best way to train our nervous system is to show it that it’s safe to be calm in those kinds of situations
that might mean taking on “micro challenges” that ever-so-slightly stretch our ability to remain centered… and then learning to relax into that space
which, over time, expands our capacity… and our courage
the route to courage is to learn to relax in as many situations as possible
this is the work of the artist, the entrepreneur, the partner, parent, friend… all of us want to be able to stay calm & centered in the face of stress
relaxation is the key, and relaxation is a practice
and it starts with giving yourself permission to start that practice, in the here and now: to notice the places you’re currently holding tension in your body, and see if you can release them just a bit
see if you can create just a bit more space, a bit more calm
might not seem like much, but it’s part of a larger process, one that takes you towards the most courageous version of yourself 🌗