Can't wait to get my money up and start using words like 'saturday napeleka gari service', 'hii full tank ishaisha?', 'nitakucall nadrive sahi' shouting to other drivers 'ona huyu wazimu' 'cable iko kwa gari' 'nitakudrop' 'huko kuna parking?' 'funga belt' 🕯️🙏
Your own family will talk bad about you when you are in the process of breaking all their generational curses. This is not for the weak.
That truth is heavy, but it is real for so many people. Growth is not always celebrated, especially when it challenges long standing patterns. When you decide to think differently, live differently, set boundaries, heal, or want more for your life than what has always been accepted, it can make others uncomfortable. Even the people who share your last name.
Breaking generational cycles means doing things that may have never been done before. It means questioning unhealthy habits. It means refusing to normalize dysfunction. It means choosing healing over silence, growth over fear, and accountability over excuses. And not everyone is ready for that.
I bought Femi Otedola's book, How to Become a Billionaire.
The moment I read the first sentence of Chapter 1 and realized he started his life in London, I just closed the book.
It is easy to blame your:
• Childhood
• Parents
• Tribe
• Government
It is much harder to accept responsibility for your own decisions.
The day a man stops looking for someone else to blame is the day he begins taking control of his life.
#ManDay