Life’s not fair, people are messy, and pain is inevitable. Your peace depends on how fast you stop trying to fix everyone and how soon you start owning your response.
People will judge you if you try and fail. People will judge you if you try and succeed. People will judge you if you don’t try at all. So decide: what do you want to be judged for?
Most of your problems are not actually problems. They are discomforts.
Discomfort is not the problem—on the contrary, it’s usually the cost of the solution.