If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, learn to love yourself, learn to prioritize you, learn to say NO, learn to mind your business, learn not to care too much and lastly, understand that you don't need everybody to like you.
There is something so silly about success. Not because it is difficult to achieve, but because when it finally arrives, it looks so ordinary. No one announces that you’ve crossed the finish line.
One day, you simply wake up living the life you once begged God for.
life is so unpredictable. you can spend the first half of the year, from january to july, feeling like everything is falling apart, wondering when things will finally change then suddenly, life shifts, doors begin to open from august and the months ahead become your best chapter
how to create real aura:
> stop caring how you are perceived
> stop performing for the room
> stop adjusting your voice for approval
> stop calculating every reaction
> stop editing yourself in real time
> move without checking the mirror of other people’s faces
> make choices that are no longer negotiations
> stop leaking energy into the need to be understood
> treat indifference as sovereignty, not coldness
> need less to be seen
> perform less
> let the performance end
aura is what remains when you finally stop asking for permission to exist
Whenever I see these videos, I can't help asking myself: why is it okay for me get the worst of you for marrying you? Yet for everybody else, you put in effort. You dress nice. You work out. But I, that you claim to love, you can only spare the worst bits of you. Why?
Not every relationship is designed to last forever.
Some are designed to teach.
When the lesson is complete, let the relationship complete too.
Gracefully.
You don’t need to be cold. Just inaccessible. Respond slower. Reveal less. Be polite, but unreadable. When people have to guess how you feel, they start treating you like someone they can’t afford to miscalculate. That’s how distance breeds influence.
7 hacks to remember as you grow:
1. when big money hits your account, don’t rush to impress. stock up, invest, and buy yourself stability. food, essentials, skills and assets first. discipline with money today creates freedom tomorrow.
2. if you can’t control it, don’t let it control you. worrying about things outside your power only steals the energy you need to change what you can.
3. protect your focus. avoid distractions that give temporary pleasure but take away your long-term potential. your attention is one of your most valuable assets.
4. call people when they cross your mind. your parents, siblingsband genuine friends. sometimes a simple thought is a reminder to reconnect before time creates distance.
5. don’t waste your life trying to change people. change your environment, change your circle and choose better influences.
6. learn to say no. you are not anyone’s emergency plan. protect your time, energy and peace without guilt.
7. fix yourself before you chase everything else. build discipline, kill destructive habits, get your finances in order and become someone you can rely on.
buena suerte. 👍