saw an inspiring video that said you need to have 4 hobbies.
create, consume, cavort, commune
create: bring something to life consume: appreciate the art of another
cavort: move your body daily commune: have a community to socialize with
One thing nobody tells you about adulthood is how fun it is to become your own person. One day you randomly start liking jazz, olive green, expensive dark chocolate, documentaries about volcanoes, weird lamps, sparkling water, books about loneliness in Tokyo, silver jewelry and quiet cafés. Your personality keeps unfolding forever if you let it.
large #1 pho at a strip mall. kpop blaring through the speakers. surrounded by couples and dudes whose wives are away for the weekend. im the sole incel. they gave me my order in 3 mins. i ate all the bean sprouts. im livin big. im livin large