정말로 악의가 없는 거라면 그건 질문 수준에서 드러나는 관심도의 문제가 남음. 한국인이 화를 내는 "00 있어?" 질문은 상대방에 대한 아무런 관심도 없고 아는 것도 없이 한다는 느낌이라 더욱 화가 나는 것임. "이 사람은 바보이거나 나에게 아무 관심도 없는데 왜 내가 이런 대화를 해야하나." 관심도 예절이라는 측면에서.
@nerdytogether@MAN44057237@moko13263354@2qAaKsaxLg26011 I understand that it’s an inference, and I’m keeping that in mind throughout this discussion. My point is that whether the inference is justified is a separate question. You can’t justify treating it as fact and proceeding to communicate on that basis without further evidence.
@nerdytogether@MAN44057237@moko13263354@2qAaKsaxLg26011 If a question can be interpreted in either a positive or a negative way, why default to the negative interpretation and assume malicious intent? I’d like to understand what justifies that conclusion.
@nerdytogether@MAN44057237@moko13263354@2qAaKsaxLg26011 When you ask someone a question, does that mean you think they’re ignorant? Of course not. You ask because you don’t know whether they already know the answer, right? You might simply be curious and want to understand their country better.