Everyone is always rooting for you. Your parents want you to be a great son. Wife wants you to be a great husband. Your boss wants you to be a slam dunk hire. Every first date you’ve ever been on they’ve been rooting for you to get laid. Every time you started to tell a joke people hoped it would have a hilarious punch line. Your proximity to anyone is a reflection of themself, meaning the deck is never stacked against you, and your failures are completely your own
The only answer you need is to just start thinking for yourself & take everything with a grain of salt. Almost everyone on this app is either trying to sell u some shit or spewing bad takes as a form of self-projection. Simple as that