If you want narcissists to acknowledge your worth, you are going to be in a world of hurt, because it's about them, not about you, and you are not a person, but an extension of their ego. Give up the hope they ever will. Remember, your self-worth is only between you and yourself.
No longer asking grown people for apologies. If one is warranted, they are old enough to know. If it is given freely and sincerely with accountability and remorse, then I can consider accepting it. If it isn't given freely with the follow-up changed behavior, then I know.
In 2024, you're going to meet a version of you that you never even knew existed. The mature you. The healed you. The healthy you. The disciplined you. The focused you. The confident you. The intuitive you. The patient you. The graceful you. The faithful you. The highest you.
january, be good to me. greet me
at the gate of new beginnings. align my thoughts with a higher call, offer clarity like rainfall in a spring morning. carry me through time with abundance, peace, and love. show me how good a year can get.
january, refresh the pages in my soul and replenish the cup of patience i hold for myself, unlock the doors that are in alignment with my purpose and block any paths that threaten to take me away from me, raise the volume on my intentions to silence any doubts. be cathartic.
“For last year's words belong to last year's language.
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning."
-T.S. Eliot
To new languages, new voices, and new beginnings.
Wishing all of you peace and happiness.
Happy New Year.
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I feel like I talked too much this year, like I begged to be understood, & overly explained myself & tried to convince people of my worth..& that's something I'II never do again. I'm done talking.
Before you sleep, ask the Lord to renew your strength in every area where you feel weak. Isaiah 40:29 says God gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Whatever it may be, mental, emotional, financial, or physical, May God strengthen us and our loved ones.
Give yourself more credit. You're trying to grow while trying to heal. You're trying to forgive while trying to grieve. You're trying to search while trying to let go. And you're trying to love others while remembering how to love yourself. You're doing the best you can. 💛
I’ve learned throughout the years in my personal experience you can be with someone everyday and still not know who they really are fr until you are put in situations where tough decisions have to be made. Time doesn’t define where you stand in someone’s life, circumstances do.
Not every layer of who you are is safe with everyone. Any type of access to your raw unfiltered energy is a privilege that should be handled & given with strict exclusivity.
Last year I felt like a part of me had died. Fast forward to now, I’ve come back to life. But I’m still navigating the few parts of myself that still feel numb inside. 2024 will be an intentional pursuit of breathing life back into those parts through all things that ignite me.