There’s a reason why intelligent men “struggle” with women beyond “high inhibition” and “overthinking”.
It’s that they’re simply less likely to participate in the dating game.
Whether you like it or not, dating is extremely performative. Both on the man’s end and the woman’s end. There’s a lot of fake. There’s a lot of cringe. We add a bunch of unnecessary layers and complications to a simple reality - we all want love, sex and intimacy.
Intelligent men see through it all. The cringemaxxing, the humiliation rituals, the performance. Once you see the competitive mating game clearly for what it is, you simply lose interest in participating. It would feel forced and inauthentic. Even the intelligent guys who get girls never truly fall in love with them. They remain detached and calculating, understanding that she is also under an illusion. He sees through the act. He sees through the words. He sees through her.
When you see things from the lens of “there’s a bunch of male animals competing to impregnate the female animal, and the female animal will pick the best one for her needs to ensure the continued survival of the species” it really takes away the mystical, romantic and love aspect from dating. It’s all transaction and biology disguised as something profound and deep.
They would rather not jump through a bunch of hoops and instead live in peace and freedom, even though the cost might be emotional and sexual fulfillment.
Intelligent men also usually come to the conclusion that the pursuit of women is a fruitless endeavor of which the reward doesn’t justify the effort. They have the awareness to see their own biological impulses and how it’s a means to an end.
When you see the circus show for what it is, it becomes far less interesting. It is only your libido and purposely falling back into the illusion that keeps you playing the game. Many of you realize the truths I’m speaking about when you have post nut clarity but then fall back into the illusion again when lust takes over.
We play because we don’t want to confront the silence that comes with breaking free. And that’s fine, because if we all have an awakening and stop playing, humanity ceases to exist.
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it’s absurdly easier as a girl to approach guys and i genuinely wish it were different.
when i was trying to find a bf in college, i would literally go up to dudes at the school bar and just say “hi! I’m linda, what’s your name” and that was it. despite the embarrassingly high success rate, i was still incredibly nervous to do it.
it gave me a lot of empathy to people who approach. so whenever someone would come up to me, no matter how attractive or awkward they were, i always tried to be kind.
i know sometimes we don’t like people interrupting our space. i know sometimes, it makes us feel uncomfortable.
but it’s worth remembering: the other person probably feels uncomfortable too. inside, they might be fighting against nervousness, embarrassment, and the fear of rejection.
they're just choosing to push past it in pursuit of finding some sort of human connection.
It’s my personal belief that people aren’t trying to hurt you. they just want to get to know you.
and i think that's worth meeting with a bit of kindness.
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