How to manufacture your own "luck":
> Don't lock yourself in your room or your town 24/7. Go to business events, go to parties, go to a nice gym. You'll get "lucky" meeting successful people there.
> Post fire organic content. You'll get "lucky" with successful people and opportunities randomly popping up.
> Curate your social media feeds with successful and tactical accounts. You'll get "lucky" with ideas and strategies stumbling onto you while you're scrolling.
> Travel to new cities and countries as much as you can. You'll post an IG story and get "lucky" when a well connected person in the area reaches out to meet up.
> Listen to a business podcast or 1 hour of business YouTube videos per day. You’ll get “lucky” when your next big idea gets inspired from a random thing you heard in a random podcast.
> Test strategies and formats you came up with yourself instead of copying someone else. You'll get "lucky" every now and then by finding something nobody else is doing.
> Be a fun, lighthearted, approachable person. You'll get "lucky" with people approaching you who end up contributing to your business or your personal life.
how to flirt with life:
(as a professional life flirter)
> go to things alone! you'll end up in more spontaneous situations
> talk to strangers - at coffee shops, events, literally anywhere. serendipity maxx
> be 5% more silly in your life. dance in your room, sing badly in the car, crack a bad joke. it's not that serious. grow the silly muscle
> playing it cool is overrated and people will never be able to know the real you
> make a bucket list and work your way through said bucket list!!
> try to find the good/kindness/love in every single person that you come across. get curious about this human in front of you that's filled with endless stories, thoughts, and perspectives
> stop dimming your light to make others comfortable. not everyone will be for you & that's okay. it's not that deep!
> start a random hobby just for fun - pottery, dance, improv, cooking. not everything needs to "be productive" ok??
> react authentically - laugh loudly, get animated, show emotion, be YOU!
> do something random *JUST BECAUSE* you feel like it - take the long way home, extend the walk, buy the chocolate, eat the ice cream
> surround yourself with people and spaces that light you up & make you feel like the BEST version of you
> compliment people genuinely. "you seem really interesting" beats small talk any day. you can catch me giving out at least 1 compliment per day
> surround yourself with people who make you feel lighter - your time and energy is precious
flirt with LIFE!!!
it's beautiful out there
let life surprise you!!!
dare yourself to enjoy it for the short time that we're all here - you got nothing to lose!!!
"Game theory is the most powerful decision-making framework in history.
From Sun Tzu & Genghis Khan to John F. Kennedy, it was used to win wars, forge empires and conquer the world."
i would tell my 25 yo version of me this:
whatever dream you have, and whatever price you think you'll have to pay to get it, it will cost you so much more than that.
the price tag of real dreams costs so much more than what you anticipate.
and nobody loses the dream in the dream. they lose the dream while they're paying the price. to everything that is in any way significant, john maxwell said that the climb is always uphill. when you start paying the price, or when you think the price tag gets too high, if there's a big price tag on what it is you're doing, that means the reward of it is going to outweigh the price that you pay.
so don't faint and don't grow weary in doing due diligence, for in due season you shall reap if you faint not.
you will see the vision come to pass.
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YOU HAVE SO MUCH POTENTIAL
Stop being miserable. Leverage your youthful energy. Hungry for success. Vital. Wake up with a burning desire. Don’t allow pessimism to dictate your thoughts. Believe that you can. Believe that you’re capable. Prove others wrong. Make yourself proud. It’s not over until you win.
“Why not in this life?”
No matter your age - you can always succeed.
So instead of playing the victim card, choose to get mad at your current position in life and strive for the life you’ve always wanted to experience.
Walk. Read. Be honest. Eat well. Do not drink or do drugs alone. Take care of your appearance, but otherwise do not think of it. Think well of yourself but do not lie to yourself. Go to the gym. Be kind and devoted. Be grateful of everything, even for the blue sky.