You cheated on your man with another man who knew you were already in a relationship and now you think that can somehow turn into a healthy relationship that leads to marriage? Come on, sis. Let’s be honest with ourselves. If you could betray someone who trusted you, what makes you think your new man won’t question your loyalty too? Trust, once broken, doesn’t rebuild easily, not for you, and not for him.
Men will always pursue,that’s in their nature. They’ll test boundaries, chase, and sometimes even pressure you. But as a woman, it’s your duty to know your limits and stand by them. Boundaries aren’t just about protecting your relationship; they’re about protecting you, your peace, your reputation, your emotional stability, and your self-worth.
Carry yourself in a way that commands respect, both from others and from yourself. Every choice you make defines how the world sees you, but more importantly, how you see yourself. When you compromise your values for temporary attention or excitement, you’re not just hurting a relationship, you’re damaging your own integrity and sense of self.
You don’t have to be in a perfect relationship to understand that cheating doesn’t just ruin love , it ruins you. Staying faithful isn’t about doing it for a man; it’s about doing it for the woman you are and the woman you’re becoming. Faithfulness is a reflection of discipline, character, and self-respect.
And even if you stay faithful while your man is out there cheating, remember, that’s his loss, not yours. His lack of loyalty doesn’t define your worth or your value. You didn’t stay faithful because of him; you did it because of who you are. Never let someone else’s brokenness make you question your integrity. It’s okay to walk away, to choose yourself, and to detach from any relationship that no longer honors your peace and your worth.
Protect your dignity. Guard your heart. Stand firm in your values. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about who stays or who leaves, it’s about who you become through it all.
I hope this piece resonates with you and you seld reflect. You are a queen and queens never lets their crowns down.
US Health Secretary Robert F. Kennedy on how the Gates Foundation is using money to control African health and food policy in a way that makes billions for Bill Gates and kills African people in the process.
It's not David Hundeyin speaking this time.
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These are the subjects covered in the new Nigeria school curriculum.
Currently, state ministries of education are reviewing the curriculum to see the applicability in each state.
Once I get the manuscript I will share.
We are making progress!
Rep. Scott Perry's remarks about USAID funding Boko Haram shocked many in West Africa.
But the US government has a long history of funding and arming terrorists. @DavidHundeyin explains
Over the past 2 weeks, a very strange sequence of events has taken place in West Africa involving everyone from Volodymyr Zelensky to an "Igbo King" in Ghana.
Is someone shaking the West African jar?
This is the police phone number for every state in Nigeria.
I know many of us believe the police is useless, but you can never tell when you or your loved one will be in a dire situation that the only/last resort will be to call to the police.
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A woman would stop at nothing to destroy herself and everyone around her once her inactive poison has been activated.
Unfortunately, many children do not know how spiteful the darkness in a woman's heart can be when things go south.
Even if your divorced mother says your father is a male-stripper and ex-armed robber, please if he's still alive, go and look for him. This app is agog with stories women have told children that turned out to be lies.
Go and read Ecclesiastical 7:26 then return and like this post.
Selah!
Let’s also address this.
Contrary to the public perception about “signing divorce papers” there’s nothing like that in our matrimonial jurisprudence. I blame this on nollywood for misleading the public by copying the American style sheepishly.
Under the Nigerian law, there are three known types of marriages: statutory marriage, islamic marriage and Customary marriage. This, dissolution of marriage is dependent on the type of marriage you contracted.
1. If it is a statutory marriage, which is erroneously called “court marriage”, the only way to dissolve the marriage is through a court order. It is through a process of presenting a petition for the dissolution of marriage and going through the entire process of trial and judgment. Upon being satisfied that the marriage has broken down irretrievably, the Court gives Order Nisi which is for 3months and after which the Order becomes Absolute and the marriage is completely dissolved. Neither of this Orders requires the signature of the husband or wife to be effective. It’s a Court Order signed by the Judge and Registrar that ends the marriage.
2. If it is a customary marriage, the return of bride price is sufficient to dissolve the marriage. No formality is required and no document is needed to be signed. Once the pride price is returned, they cease to be husband and wife. But because of the enactments made by the states, customary marriages now undergo judicial processes to be dissolved.
3. Dissolution of Islamic marriages is similar to customary marriages above. Once the man pronounces Talaq three times, the marriage ceases to exist and it may also go through judicial process to be effective.
From the above, none of three types of marriages requires “signing of divorce papers” by the parties to the marriage to be effective.
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Do you know why the past of women is talked about more than the past of men?
-When searching for husbands, women put into consideration the things the men have to offer. These things are, a stable home, finance and provision, security and protection, care and affection.
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She'll go out of her way to learn it.
20) she'll most likely forgive you for cheating on her many times.
Now before any of you women come to say "I did all these but he still left".
Check yourself properly. You most likely ruined your sacrifices for him with your hands.
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@jon_d_doe In marriage, there is something called "mental energy".
The mental energy of your wife must never surpass yours.
If it does, she will be the one controlling you.
She'll hurt you badly & still make you feel you're the one hurting her.
You'll defend the indefensible.
End.
@jon_d_doe We look for our mother in our lover but our lover would never be our mother because our lover would never love us like our mother. Everything she does for you is for her survival, everything your mother do for you is for your survival
Before you enter a marriage, discuss
-bills
-career
-religion
-finance
-dream home
-political views
-parenting style
-family influence
-sex expectations
-childhood traumas
-family health history
-partner expectations
-beliefs to be instilled in kids
Love alone is not enough