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Asceticist

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True intelligence is what lets you work hard and do the difficult things, not the ability to repeat some fancy nonsensical buzzwords.

[Jaynit @jaynitx]

Jordan Peterson on why imposter syndrome is not the problem you think it is:

1. feeling like an imposter is actually a marker of mental health and competence. the people who do not feel it are the narcissists. if you have any sense and you are not deluded about your abilities you will feel some version of this every time you level up. peterson says the absence of imposter syndrome should concern you more than its presence.

2. every time you move up you will feel like an imposter. that is not a flaw. it is accurate. when you first enter a new role you are a beginner. you do not know what you are doing yet. feeling like an imposter at that stage is not a sign of weakness. it is a sign that you have enough self awareness to recognize the gap between where you are and where you need to be.

3. admitting ignorance to competent people never goes badly. people are afraid to ask questions because they think they are the only one in the room who does not know. they are not. if you were paying attention and you had a question the probability that half the room had the same question is very high. you only have to ask a stupid question once. after that you are no longer stupid about it.

4. intellectual humility is endearing to people who are actually good at what they do. competent people are always asking questions too because they know how much they do not know. when they see you asking questions they do not think you are incompetent. they think you probably are competent.

5. there is a darker version of imposter syndrome called imposter adaptation. hedonic adaptation is where happiness resets after good things happen. imposter adaptation is where the feeling of being a fraud persists no matter how many times you disprove it. you keep succeeding. the feeling keeps returning. at some point you have to admit the feeling has nothing to do with your actual capacity and everything to do with an addiction to feeling like an imposter.

6. high neuroticism makes this significantly worse. neuroticism is sensitivity to threat and punishment. people high in this trait need more evidence to feel safe and competent. the calibration problem is nearly impossible. you wake up with an ache in your side. is it nothing or is it cancer. most of the time it is nothing. the neurotic brain cannot easily tell the difference and applies the same logic to professional competence.

7. the only treatment that actually works is voluntary exposure to the things you are afraid of. you keep facing challenges. you keep paying attention. you develop competence. the environment becomes more predictable. the evidence accumulates. the people around you build confidence in you and that confidence reflects back. there is no shortcut. that is the pathway.

[edisonZ @ai_edisonZ]

@caozlog 很多人追求财务自由，只解决了“不想做什么”，却没回答“想怎么活”。上班除了赚钱，还提供时间表、社交圈、身份和被需要感。一旦离开组织，这些都要自己重建。真正难的不是不上班，而是不靠公司安排，也能把每天过得具体、有目标、有反馈。

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@davidsenra If two ppl have never disagreed with each others, they are not true friends.

[David Senra @davidsenra]

“Most people don't know why Steve Jobs fired two board members of Pixar.”

“The reason he fired them was that they never disagreed with him.”

“Steve said ‘If they don't disagree with me then they aren't bringing any value to the company.’”

“That's an unusual way of thinking and he really believed that.”

[TRIGGERnometry @triggerpod]

"You can't ignore human nature."

Join us tonight for a compelling conversation with American journalist and writer Sebastian Junger.

Don't miss the full episode tonight, Saturday, June 13th, at 7PM UK | 2PM ET on YouTube, Facebook and X.

[Lorne Balfe @Lornebalfe]

Interesting Advice …..

[Michael Shellenberger @shellenberger]

The American Psych. Assoc. says therapy is “effective,” but Americans diagnosed with depression rose from 20% to 30% since 2015, while the number of Americans in therapy rose from 17 to 22 million. Victimhood ideology and the valuing of feelings over virtue are to blame.

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不是我说的, 百度说的:
简言之：‌旅游打卡 = 到网红/指定地点 + 拍照/记录 + 社交发布，核心动机是“被看见”而非“被感受”。

[因为理工科天赋点废了就全点人文社科了 @hakillha]

True character comes from doing things you don't want to do when you have the option not to.

[Huberman Lab Clips @HLPClips]

Cell phone usage and EMFs can have a negative impact on sperm health and testosterone levels:

"The electromagnetic fields and the heat-related effects of smartphones can indeed have a detrimental effect on sperm quality and, yes, indeed, on testosterone levels as well."

"Phones emit radio frequency electromagnetic waves and have potential adverse effects on brain, heart, endocrine system, and reproductive function."

"Probably not a problem for most males to carry their phone. But probably best to not carry it in the front pocket. Maybe even avoid carrying it in the back pocket as well."

@hubermanlab

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你怎么知道你觉得自己做不到的一件事不是一样的情况呢？

[因为理工科天赋点废了就全点人文社科了 @hakillha]

一对夫妇有一个孩子。
一个大夫给孩子做身体检查的时候诊断ta有一种奇怪的病：一旦孩子尝试走路，ta就会立刻猝死。
夫妇把孩子绑在了一个轮椅上。
孩子长大了，ta也相信这个诊断，因此老老实实地待在轮椅上一辈子。

[因为理工科天赋点废了就全点人文社科了 @hakillha]

一对夫妇有一个孩子。
一个大夫给孩子做身体检查的时候诊断ta有一种奇怪的病：一旦孩子尝试走路，ta就会立刻猝死。
夫妇把孩子绑在了一个轮椅上。
孩子长大了，ta也相信这个诊断，因此老老实实地待在轮椅上一辈子。

[Interesting Sciences @amazing13_13]

When Your Brain Glitches While Socializing

[Sam Stoffel @sam_stoffel]

I come back to this speech every once in a while:

“in the 1,526 singles matches I played in my career, I won almost 80% of those matches

… what percentage of points do you think I won in those matches?

only 54%.”

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@hrykong 最上面这本让人想起 Daniel Kahneman 的思考快与慢, Steven Pinker 和罗素了.

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@colinwu 所以理论上, 它也有可能导致抑郁症.

[Huberman Lab Clips @HLPClips]

Simple test for gauging recovery and workout readiness:

"How do you know when a muscle is ready to be challenged again?"

"If you're training when you're really sore, it's probably not a great idea and it's a good indication that that muscle's not recovered."

"When you start to see a drop-off of 10% or so, or even greater, of your grip output, you really should skip the gym that day."

@trainer2thepros on @hubermanlab

[alexandra @ptichushka]

today's lifts !! far from the heaviest weights i have touched, but i'm pretty happy considering i basically had under two weeks of training for this meet. :-) anyways see you in fort worth !!

[因为理工科天赋点废了就全点人文社科了 @hakillha]

社媒就像奥运会上的格斗类项目。区别在于，社媒上的这些观众，会以为那两个运动员代表的国家之间，真的有仇。

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@siantgirl @silsrc 如果她有这个女人一样勇敢且聪明我今天就给她洗内裤😋

https://t.co/F0zb7lO2I3

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@asteriaaaa0109 我是啊
比如说这位女士我就挺喜欢的
https://t.co/AqEZfzxftA