and if love ever finds me again, i hope it's with someone who thinks about how their actions affect me,someone who considers my feelings before making choices and values my peace as much as their own because I'm not here to survive love again, I'm here to finally live it
Lying to someone who can read energy is wild behavior because they already know the true you from your body language. You can't fool someone with strong intuition who feels everything you're not saying. They're just waiting to see if you'll finally be honest.
we're older now, no one wants to be in a boring ass relationship with no real dates, no elevation, no traveling, no chemistry, no nothing. Just shacking up, having sex, and being toxic. Go do sum 😩
Every time you abandon your boundaries to maintain access to them, you’re placing your self-esteem in their hands. Their silence determines your mood, their inconsistency determines your worth and their attention decides whether you feel lovable that day. You cannot heal while repeatedly giving someone the power to define you. You cannot achieve peace while investing in chaos.
i actually think "surface level" friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride or die. some friends are for the gym. some are for going out. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. those deep convos and connections are for the 2-3 people closest to you
"Men can tend to ask for a lot without wanting to give any type of security."
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My grandma always said “toodaloo” instead of goodbye because she hated goodbyes. When she passed away we were on our way to bury her ashes in the cemetery and we were stopped at a traffic light. There was a red Pontiac Sunfire in front of us with a license plate that said “toodaloo” on it. I kid you not we all lost our minds and started crying.
I’m so talked out, im not addressing anything anymore. The answers you want are always in people’s actions. I no longer want an explanation as to why people chose to be weird when it comes to me. Your actions were enough for me to realize you’re not who I THOUGHT you were
Two givers in a relationship looks like
• He paid for her nails so she paid for his next 2 cuts
• She made the list, he bought the groceries and brought them inside, she put them away.
• She cooked, he cleaned.
• She bought him cologne so he sent her on a Spa Day
• He covered every bill so she booked the trip
• She bought him Js so he filled her tank/detailed the car.
It's not about going 50/50 on expenses. It’s about going 100/100 in life. You pour into me, I pour into you. You prioritize me, I prioritize you. It’s really that simple when you know a person has your back!