Zeth

Humanitarian, Mum B,advocate, activist, and fun loving, occasionally lazy Aquarian :)

[Massimo @Rainmaker1973]

A research into cat behavior shows that domestic cats regard humans as social peers rather than superiors, often perceiving their owners as large, awkward kittens.

Far from being aloof or defiant, a cat’s apparent indifference stems from a profound interspecies mismatch in social expectations.

As anthrozoologist John Bradshaw explains, cats—unlike dogs—never evolved to recognize humans as dominant leaders or authority figures. Instead, they filter all interactions through an exclusively feline framework. Behaviors like kneading on your lap or licking your hair are not mere displays of affection; they are the same grooming and bonding rituals cats reserve for close kin or pride members. In their eyes, we are simply enormous, somewhat clumsy fellow cats who require inclusion in the group.

This absence of hierarchical deference accounts for cats’ frequent disregard of commands or household rules. Treating us as equals, they follow cat-to-cat social protocols in every encounter. The “gifts” of dead prey on the doorstep or constant shadowing around the home are acts of care toward what they see as a big, furless, rather inept companion.

Recognizing this mindset transforms the human-cat relationship from one based on authority and obedience to one of mutual companionship. It turns out that while many owners believe they have domesticated their cats, the cats themselves are quietly convinced they are patiently tending to their oversized, adopted family members.

[Bradshaw, J. (2013). Cat Sense: How the New Feline Science Can Make You a Better Friend to Your Pet. Basic Books]

[Keziah Minayo @KeziahMina96906]

@EACCKenya So, ,, you chose who to publish on but wale wa Millions hamuaniki sura zao .

[The Governance Expert @De76508Denis]

Nelson Havi should stop misleading the public and weaponising legal opinions against judicial officers whenever rulings do not favour his preferred side. Hon. Dorah Chepkwony’s ruling was anchored in law, procedure, and constitutional interpretation. Courts exist to determine whether rights have been violated and whether due process was followed. A constitutional petition cannot simply be dismissed because another party disagrees politically or emotionally with its existence. The High Court has jurisdiction under the Constitution to interrogate alleged violations of privacy, fair administrative action, and fair hearing. That is exactly what Justice Chepkwony addressed.

What is disturbing is the growing habit by some lawyers, including Nelson Havi, of turning every judicial disagreement into public intimidation and character assassination. The judiciary cannot operate under threats, social media pressure, or manufactured outrage from legal cartels that believe they alone understand the law. If a party is dissatisfied with a ruling, the law provides channels of appeal, not public lynching of judges. Havi cannot position himself as prosecutor, judge, and final authority over every court decision in Kenya.

The same Constitution Havi often quotes protects judicial independence. Judges are expected to make decisions based on pleadings and evidence before them, not noise from activists on X spaces and Facebook live sessions. Hon. Dorah Chepkwony handled a sensitive matter involving constitutional questions and competing applications. Whether one agrees with the outcome or not, professionalism demands respect for the court process.

Kenyans know very well who benefits whenever confusion and pressure are exerted on the judiciary. The biggest danger to justice is not judges making rulings; it is powerful legal cartels trying to intimidate courts and manipulate public perception whenever outcomes do not favour them.

[Chacha Maroa @Chamaroa]

This phenomenon was described by George Orwell as Double Think. I think it's got more to do with bigotry rather than values. "Nikipewa Nastahili, Ukipewa Umependelewa". I have not seen calls from the sanctimonious group urging Justice Njoki Ndung'u to turn down the ICC judge endorsement by government.

[goma @soigomaa]

After a certain age, your parents slowly become your children. They ask simple questions, repeat stories, and depend on your patience the way you once depended on theirs. Very few understand this role reversal.What looks like innocence or inconvenience is really time coming full circle. Don't correct them harshly. Don't rush them. Care for them the way they once protected you. This is not a burden. It is repayment.

[¥ @LAYSAINTLAURENT]

I admire women who let people be wrong about them. No correcting, no arguing, no proving anything, just peace, silence, and growth. That’s how you really win.

[𝙶𝚊𝚠𝚞𝚔𝚊 𝚔𝚊𝙼𝚐𝚎𝚐𝚎𝚍𝚕𝚊 @Somlimokazi]

Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about alignment, meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.

[D.Storyteller🥹🤍 @dammy_pep]

Any lady reading this, I pray money finds you in a way that changes your life for good. The kind that brings peace, and not pressure. May you earn it with confidence, grow it with wisdom, and never have to beg for it. 🫶🏾💕🌸

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

A woman I know found out her coworkers had a group chat without her.
Not unusual. Happens all the time.
What made it different was that she was the one training most of them.
Helping with resumes. Covering shifts. Fixing mistakes quietly so no one got written up.
She found out by accident when someone sent a screenshot to the wrong thread.
Her name was in it.
Not in a dramatic way.
Just jokes. Eye rolls. “She tries too hard.” “Why does she act like the boss?”
The next day she showed up the same. Smiled. Helped. Answered questions.
But she stopped volunteering.
Stopped staying late.
Stopped reminding people about deadlines.
Three months later the department was a mess.
Management asked her why she wasn’t “stepping up” like before.
She said, calmly, “I realized I was the only one who thought we were a team.”
That’s it.
No confrontation. No meltdown.
Just withdrawal.
And the wild part?
People only notice your value when you stop giving it for free.

[Maryam @hell_line0]

When a woman makes her own money, is educated, takes care of herself, and builds her own life, the only thing a man brings to the table is how he treats her. Let that sink in.

[Sheila of the Most High @sheilatebra]

Don’t be ashamed of anything you’ve had to face. Moving back home, losing things, being betrayed, going through a breakup or divorce, losing a job, even having a breakdown. Life unfolds in seasons, and every season has a purpose.

If anyone mocks what you’ve gone through, remember that God sees everything. No one escapes their own lessons, and everyone will eventually be humbled in their own time. What matters is not the storm itself, but who you become through it.

[Dan Go @CoachDanGo]

One of the greatest cheat codes in life is to never get offended. Train yourself to have a thick skin. Don't take things personally. Let others disagree with you. Being easily offended means you're easily manipulated. Want more peace? Avoid getting offended.

[Sheila of the Most High @sheilatebra]

When God warns you about someone, DO NOT ignore it. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve knowing them. The Holy Spirit sees what you don’t. Accept the truth God is showing you, and do it quickly. Your obedience activates His protection over you.

[Martha Ahumuza @MarthaAhumuza]

If I were a man I too would be the loudest advocate for marriage. In fact I’m constantly impressed by how thoroughly women were convinced that an institution offering men comfort and unpaid labor was somehow their prize. Imagine waking up to a life where your domestic needs

[Mia♡ @luxemiaa]

"Marry a man with a provider's soul, not necessarily rich but responsible. A man who ensures your needs are met without you having to ask or remind him."

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

2 important Laws for a MAN

MURPHY LAW:

If you continue to show fear over something happening, it will likely happen.

WILSON LAW:

If you stop reading and learning, you will stop earning.

You are the master of your own destiny.

Learn to say NO.

#MasculinitySaturday