Don’t be the reason someone develops trust issues. It’s bigger than you and them, it will negatively impact more people than you can imagine.
Just be truthful and kind.
“That’s just the way I am” is a missed opportunity for growth.
Personality is not your destiny. It’s your tendency. No one is limited to a single way of thinking, feeling, or acting.
Who you become is not about the traits you have. It's what you decide to do with them.
The Feynman Technique
To learn anything:
Step 1: Identify a topic
Step 2: Try to explain it to a 5-year-old
Step 3: Study to fill in knowledge gaps
Step 4: Organize, convey, and review
True genius is the ability to simplify, not complicate.
Simple is beautiful.
I already knew that a small success often gives you the necessary dopamine kick to get you moving forward, but, somehow, I never made the connection. 🤯
A big misconception is that you need to be motivated to get rolling.
You don't.
Research: Motivation often FOLLOWS action, not the other way around.
In Practice: You don't need to feel good to get going; you need to get going to give yourself a chance at feeling good:
Don’t allow mentally ill people to ascend into positions of power. Why?! Because the mental health of everyone below them will have to suffer immensely.
@ministryoftest I think we need measurable standards. Some form of fixed, generic metrics. The industry is so vast and people’s understanding of things varies so much, that it’s impossible to speak the same language most of the times.