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[Hector Castillo @hekkycastillo]

Practice being happy for others and your charisma will take a quantum leap.

When you see others doing well, internalize it and imagine their happiness being your happiness. Do whatever you have to mentally until it happens.

Once it does, verbalize it. Congratulate them. Tell them literally you're happy for them and MEAN it.

You'll be astounded what it can do to your dating life and social life.

[Coin Bureau @coinbureau]

🎥WATCH: 🇵🇭Terrifying scenes across the Philippines as a massive 7.8M Earthquake sends shockwaves across the country.

[William A. Wallace, Ph.D. @WilliamWallace]

EPA and DHA are both "omega-3," but they perform different jobs.

DHA is structural, built into neuron and retinal membranes. EPA is a signal, metabolized fast [little of it stays (at least in the brain)].

EPA clears arachidonic acid, the raw material for inflammatory eicosanoids. DHA is the stronger trigger for the resolution molecules that shut down NF-kB, the master switch for cytokines (CRP, TNF-a, IL-6).

A 2026 meta-analysis of 96 trials caught the split: DHA-leaning ratios (<1:1) cut cytokines most, EPA-leaning ratios (≥1:1) cleared AA most (dose was 1-3 g/day).

Mood looks like it contradicts this. The depression benefit tracks EPA (≥60% EPA), even though EPA barely enters neurons. The best current explanation is that a share of depression is inflammation-linked, and EPA acts on that signaling at the periphery, not inside the brain. It moves the input, not the structure.

[Bob Loukas 🗽 @BobLoukas]

Just like all prior cycles. Current drawdown from 2022-26 crypto Cycle -

ETH - 69%
XRP - 71%
LTC - 72%
Link - 77%
SOL - 79%
SUI - 87%
ADA - 88%
AVAX - 90%

Way oversold, due a bounce, but all potentially have up to 50% declines left in them this year.

[Coin Bureau @coinbureau]

🔥A ROBOT PET COULD BE NEXT

Robots are not just coming for human jobs. They are coming for pets too.

AI-powered robot companions are getting more lifelike, more responsive, and harder to ignore.

[David Sinclair @davidasinclair]

Cystatin C is one of the better routine blood biomarkers for predicting longevity

[Lifespan @JoinLifespan]

Declining kidney function is the most overlooked cause of death

Only 55,000 US deaths/yr are attributed to it, yet ~37M have chronic kidney disease &amp; this speeds heart disease, infection, frailty &amp; early death.

Markers to watch: Cystatin C &amp; urine albumin

[Bitcoin Magazine @BitcoinMagazine]

JUST IN: 🇺🇸 Treasury Secretary Scott Bessent says the U.S. Government has seized $1 billion of Iran's crypto:

"Just outright grabbed the wallets. Some of them may be typing in right now and might not realize their wallet had been grabbed."

[Coin Bureau @coinbureau]

🟠JUST IN: 🇺🇸Treasury Secretary Scott Bessent says the U.S. has seized $1 BILLION worth of crypto from Iran.

[David Sinclair @davidasinclair]

New paper @Nature analyzing 11,000 profiles of cellular gene expression provides further evidence that aging is not just wear & tear but a reversible loss of epigenetic information linked directly to mortality risk

Reprogramming, embryogenesis & young blood partially reversed aging signals. Why is this important?

The work implies that the youthful state of tissues is not lost permanently during aging.

It can be restored

The work is also the strongest systems-level support yet for the idea that aging is not just random wear and tear, but a coordinated and reversible loss of biological information.

In many ways, it strengthens the Information Theory of Aging (ITOA), which we first formulated back in 2008-2009.

The striking thing is not simply that damage accumulates. It is that cells enter a coordinated transcriptional state associated with mortality risk, which strongly argues aging is an organized systems phenomenon. This is exactly what you would expect if cells progressively lose youthful epigenetic control information.

The work by the Gladyshev lab @harvardmed (no link to us) suggests aging is not a collection of unrelated damage. It behaves more like an attractor state.Cells under many forms of stress drift toward a common aged configuration.

That is deeply compatible with the idea that epigenetic information loss causes cells to progressively collapse due to informational noise. We call this process epigenetic drift, leading to ex-differentiation.

One of the most important aspects is that it links aging directly to mortality risk rather than simply chronological time. Prof Gladyshev and team developed transcriptomic clocks that don’t just estimate age, they measure the progressive loss of cellular function and predict biological decline and mortality risk across mammals.

That is a major advance because it brings us closer to measuring the underlying process of aging itself, not just the passage of time, in a way first shown by Prof. Steven Horvath in 2013.

The team also launched TACO (Transcriptomic Age Calculator Online) allowing researchers to estimate the biological age and mortality risk of tissues using RNA data they may already have. A potentially powerful new tool for aging research

What I find especially important is that the strongest mortality-associated changes involve chromatin organization, epigenetic regulation, inflammation, and mitochondrial dysfunction.

These are all deeply connected to the maintenance of cellular identity and the preservation of biological information over time.

The study strongly supports the idea that aging is not merely the accumulation of damage, but a progressive loss of the systems that maintain youthful cellular organization.

In many ways, this aligns with the Information Theory of Aging, which proposes that cells lose epigenetic information over time but retain a backup copy that can potentially be restored.

Importantly, the paper also confirms that these molecular signatures are reversible, which we and others have previously shown.

They accelerate after DNA damage, and during disease and stress, but slow or reverse during interventions such as reprogramming, heterochronic parabiosis, and early embryogenesis.

That gives real hope that aging is biologically malleable & perhaps, one day, medically treatable 🙏

Thanks for reading all the way down. I gave this whole analysis to a reporter and my quote was 2 words: "Major advance" 😆

So we can all stay abreast of this fast paced field, @JoinLifespan has a new show & a magazine written by real scientists. As a community we are sponsoring young scientists, too. Maybe check us out 🙏

[Blockstream @Blockstream]

.@BlockstreamJade (both v1 and Plus) is not affected by the ESP32 Bluetooth CVE.

The CVE refers to a debug interface that is not active on Jade v1 (including DIY builds) and does not exist at all in Jade Plus hardware.

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[Lifespan @JoinLifespan]

New paper by @BKennedy_aging finds that supplement users have a significantly younger Age Delta, which is not the case for medication users

What were the supplements?

1. Alpha-ketoglutarate (AKG), carotenoids, calcium, CoQ10, curcumin, D3, and NAD+ boosters were associated with lower Age Delta

2. The paper "shows for the first time that an inexpensive, non-invasive, saliva-based biological age test can be a powerful tool to conduct population research and uncover relationships between lifestyle, medications, and supplement use"

3. Heavy supplement use was neither beneficial nor harmful

4. However, older men appeared to respond better to AKG than older women

5. AKG was associated with lower Age Residual regardless of weight, weekly exercise, or alcohol intake, with slightly larger benefits seen in those who exercise more often

6. Traditionally, doctors view polypharmacy (more than one treatment) as a liability to be avoided. However, "it is more likely that polypharmacy is a consequence and not a cause of age-related morbidity."

7. Several observational studies find combining two drugs reduces all-cause mortality. The potential risks and harms of supplement polypharmacy are less understood.

8. In this cohort almost 11% of the participants were taking more than 5 supplements, yet their health condition was excellent and higher supplement use was not associated with older biological age, suggesting that supplement combinations are well tolerated

Useful study. Well done @BKennedy_aging and team. Food for thought 🤔

[Dan Go @CoachDanGo]

This is a picture of what muscle looks like at 25 vs. 55

Left is healthy dense muscle.
Right is unhealthy muscle with fat marbled like a ribeye.

It's called myosteatosis, and for many people, it is already happening.

One study tracked adults aged 74 and older and found that muscle fat increased by 48.5% in men and 29% in women.

As you get older, fat starts to infiltrate the muscle itself.

This can lead to weaker muscles that look the same on the outside, worse insulin sensitivity, a higher risk of falls and fractures, and a faster decline in your 60s, 70s, and 80s.

Your home scale won't catch this. By the time someone feels it, they have already lost years of function.

The good news is that it is reversible. The top four things that move the needle are:

1. The foundation is getting your body metabolically healthy
2. Lifting heavy three times per week so the muscle stays dense.
3. Eating 0.8 to 1 g of protein per pound of body weight
Walking daily
4. Fixing your sleep patterns

You can't out supplement this. The only things that reverse it are lifting heavy things and not being too fat.

[David Sinclair @davidasinclair]

The more stable the system the slower the aging

[Hector Castillo @hekkycastillo]

Become addicted to giving women pleasure.

Enjoy giving them laughs, smiles, wisdom, an attentive ear, and orgasms.

The best way to do this is be the most attractive version of yourself.

Fall in love with loving women.

The IQ check on this post is that if you read that and asked, "WOAH, are you saying to simp or to lower ourselves to women to make them happy at our own expense?"

Then you failed the check.

Any man who knows women knows that being strong (not letting yourself be desperate or disrespected) is a non-negotiable part of being attractive to women.

[Hector Castillo @hekkycastillo]

You dating life (probably) won't change much if you take no action to meet more women.

And even if you somehow to stumble upon the girl or girls you want through your current habits, you (probably) won't have the ideal relationship you'd want with her, because you're not close to the ideal version of yourself.

You're probably vastly underestimating the work it's going to take to get where you want and you think NOT doing the work will lead to a better result.

It won't.

The biggest risk to your dating life is doing nothing to change your dating life.

[Hector Castillo @hekkycastillo]

And to add more detail onto the end of this, you simply take this knowledge of how attraction principles work THROUGH actions/words/behaviors and think, "How can I communicate the masculine and/or human characteristics that are attractive to women to date/smash and other men to befriend them?"

You put them into a unique form that is "you." There's infinite creativity here. But it still has to "work." You can't just pretend everything you do is awesome cuz that's not true and you have to be honest with yourself...really honest with yourself. And you have to "test it."

and in before the dummies say "omg you're teaching people to be fake, just be urself bruh!"

You're not being fake, because

1. You really do want to be attractive and there's nothing wrong with that (so it's HONEST)

and

2. Things that are attractive are OBJECTIVELY ATTRACTIVE even if they're subjectively "colored" by your unique personality. There IS TRUE BEAUTY in the world. This objective reality counters any "this is fake" accusations from low iq dingdongs.

And if you don't have the traits you want to SIGNAL to the world to be attractive?

THEN GO AND MAKE THEM REAL YOU DINGDONG.

GO BECOME MORE FUN, MORE SMART, MORE INTERESTING, ETC.

LIFE IS AN INFINITE GAME OF FREEDOM AND YOU'RE NOT JUST LIMITED TO ONE LIFE. Only the dumbest of us are confined by materialistic "you only have one life" worldviews. There is no framework of the universe lower than this. Even the most braindead evangelical 73IQ bible thumping Christian is smarter than the most 200 IQ atheist in the simple fact that he acknowledges there's more than just physical reality and that there is life/before after death. What you do matters and will echo into your future lives and your current life is also an echo of your previous lives.

So get to work, my friends. If you were deserving of what you wanted, you would already have it.

MAKE your reality.

May you become the most beautiful version of yourself and may you find happiness and peace everlasting. I will spend an eternity on this quest to bring you all peace, happiness, and also truth (which is why I'm a bit rough sometimes :D) as best as I can, while also have a fun time myself.

See you at the finish line.

[Hector Castillo @hekkycastillo]

Hold yourself accountable as much as possible with other people. This means being explicit and direct about when you mess up, whether it's getting mad at a misunderstanding or saying something wrong.

You cannot have healthy relationships without this.

Accountability in dating, relationships, and friendships gives you

1. Trust. People will just trust you more, because untrustworthy people don't do this.

2. Love. People will love you for this, because it is a trait that demonstrates many other high value traits: self-awareness, honesty, ambition, consistency, and compassion (you wouldn't admit your mistakes out loud if you didn't value them knowing you are taking accountability).

3. Moral superiority, both inwards and outwards. Inwardly, you feel good about yourself and have a deep sense of self-respect, because you are worthy of respect. Outwardly, you can hold others to a high standard without them being able to call you a hypocrite and thus ignoring your criticisms.

Example of accountability:

You catch yourself letting your bad day come through your words and behaviors and you're taking it out on someone else.

Before THEY call you out, you call yourself out. It's worthy 10x more if you catch yourself before they do...but if they do call you out first, you still say something like

"Hey man, I'm sorry...i'm being a prick cuz of X and Y, but that's no excuse. I shouldn't take it out on you. I'm sorry."

HOW you say this is also super important. Give them strong eye contact and be as sincere and direct as possible. Zero "charisma" should be used. You SHOULD feel sad about it when you realize it and that will express itself "naturally" if you restrict yourself from being cool/charismatic or shallow/indirect about. Explain in detail and then take full accountability. Maybe even add onto that you will try not to do it again.

The only "weakness" here is that people who have less good will than you might THINK they can take advantage of this and know you'll take accountability but will not do so themselves. They THINK this is a way to "get you." Either a toxic girlfriend will have you "make it up to her" or a toxic friend will "punish" you for it. If you EVER see this behavior, this is where moral superiority becomes a "shield" against these people. You immediately call them out for THEIR toxic behavior and explain how you taking accountability is the 'penance" and taking advantage of that in any way exposes THEIR crappy character. And they can't really argue the point, because you are taking accountability. If they do anything but admit fault also, they "lose."

[Hector Castillo @hekkycastillo]

Do not date women with baggage.

This means walking away even if you feel compassion for someone's situation and are highly attracted to them.

Baggage = awful ex's who cast their shadow on your relationship, bad relationships with parents, mental disorders, tons of friendship dramas, career dramas, etc.

A lot of times the combination of attraction + compassion will destroy you AND the relationship.

You will dump way more investment into the person than they frankly deserve.

There's going to be an IQ check towards the end of this post, so make sure you read the whole thing.

A lot of people will cope that they are helping their lover/girlfriend out of love/compassion, but a lot of what people think is love is just lust mixed with other very non-love emotions.

The easiest and most simple one-shot to prove this is to ask, "Would you be doing all of this if you weren't sleeping with this person or will eventually be sleeping with them?"

Instant KO to most cases. Getting your willy wet or the promise of such is like the main motivation. Compassion just hides in there to make it seem larger than lust.

And that's not even going into the whole "she's going to love me so much for the devotion I'm showing!" situation. Finally you'll get the adoration and affection you've always craved....right, bigboi?

The "help her with her baggage" game CONTAMINATES the initial stages of the relationship and makes it messy...how do you know it's REALLY compassion? Are you SUPER SURE you're not just running some save-a-hoe complex, wanting to prove yourself, get someone super devoted to you? and are you SUPER SURE she's not just using YOU? She might not even be totally aware HERSELF lol cuz that's how the mind works...it controls you rather than vice-versa....

I know this statistically, too, because every man who I've seen get super super obsessed with a girl who has baggage with issues has not done so in a vacuum.

There was ALWAYS some stuff going on in his life that made it like so ridiculously obvious he's doing it for more than just "I really care about her." There's compassion obviously mixed in, but thinking its some act of love to care for some random chick you barely know and work through her big dramatic past it's like saying the main ingredient in a pepperoni pizza is pepperonis when it's only the topping.

The best, most moral, AND most effective method to ensure a healthy relationship is to date for pleasure, peace, and have high character standards.

Pleasure = they're hot and you like their personality

Peace = they're NOT full of baggage and are healthy. no one's perfect obviously but we're talking basics...they don't communicate like dingdongs and have their stuff together and aren't playing too many games (everyone plays a little)

High character standards = they're genuinely good people. generous, kind, disciplined, etc.

DATE THEM BECAUSE THEY MAKE YOU HAPPY.

Happy =/= you date them because they fulfill ANY twisted fantasy (save-a-hoe, damsel in distress, etc.).

The reason this is important and why it's moral is because AFTER you've built the foundation of a relationship on attraction and peace, THENNNNNNNNNN (and here's the IQ test)

IF ANYTHING BAD HAPPENS IN THEIR LIFE AND YOU HELP THEM THROUGH IT, THEN IT'S MUCH MUCH MORE LIKELY YOU'RE HELPING THEM OUT OF TRUE COMPASSION....BECAUSE YOU CARE ABOUT THEM.

This is the IQ test part, because i know some drooling dingdong reads this and is thinking, "omg he's sayin you shouldn't ever help people you love! wtf who is this guy?!" obviously not saying that and now im explaining when you DO help people

They go through something bad? Hit a slump in their life? Lose their job or their spark for their career? Get depressed and gain weight? Family tragedy? Accident and get paralyzed or sum crazy stuff?

You help them because you love them and care for them. Your attraction and love for them has been built purely on you liking her and her liking you, NOT external elements making her dependent on you and/or you wanting to save a damsel in distress and getting infinitely dumped into her emotionally.

So when something DOES happen, the "baggage" is NEW and is dealt with together because now you're a team, rather than it being a secret way that created a false bond between you two. Your bond wasn't created by some toxic combination of "i like having secks with them but they're like super messed up and it disrupts our love/secks/connection so i gotta move this titanic weight to help US cuz she's too weak to do it herself...and now i'm super emotionally invested in her but she's also supe dependent and it's just as unhealthy as her previous baggage but now it's TWO OF US messed up, not just one."

Going through stuff with your partner from a foundation of "we're both generally pretty healthy people" makes the compassion of helping PURE. You PROVE the purity of it, because lust for their body/personality has already been established and then you choose NOT to leave her afterwards....

I'll make it simple

Case #1: Get with someone with baggage and helping them too much out the gate = BAD BECAUSE unclear if it's compassion driving you or mostly just you wanting poontang and thinking that if you put in all this effort to save her she'll be forever in love or you don't think you're attractive enough to be loved on just the merits of your general attractiveness. there's too much "stuff in the bag" to tell what's what

Case #2: Getting with someone for basic reasons (they're attractive to you and good people) THEN something bad happens and you LEAVE = BAD because you're only around when things are good and aren't ride or die

Case #3: Getting with someone for basic reasons (they're attractive to you and good people) THEN something bad happens and you STAY = GOOD because you got together for HONEST reasons (attraction) but you're ALSO virtuous and ARE ride or die

AND the kicker is that a lot of times with Case #1, if you begin dating women with baggage, some bad things will happen once the honeymoon phase ends

1. You'll get upset she doesn't reciprocate the effort you put in, but technically she doesn't have to...but you will 100% feel bad about it and unless YOU go through some big stuff, there will never really be a way for her to "prove" she feels the same as you. And oftentimes, people with baggage are unfortunately not great people so they're literally incapable of reciprocating the level of effort you put in lol. I remember dealing with my college ex's anxiety all the time...but then once I had to deal with mine and wanted support from her, she left me. We got back together at some point and I remember telling her that I resented her for leaving me when I had problems but happy to burden me with hers. We didn't last long lol. Lessons learned. Don't date people with baggage (but so many idiots on here think this mean you shouldn't ever open up to a woman or something but they're just low IQ; their ability to understand context is pretty much zero. npc behavior. women can 100% help you through tough times if they're good people).

2. Once she's feeling better, her attraction for you might drop. You were super attracted to her for her face or body or personality or w/e, but once the "extra value" of helping her through baggage fades in value (because she's feeling better), she's left with only the original attraction she had for you and....it's not as much as it felt like in the beginning, because, again, she was DEPENDENT on you, not ATTRACTED.

3. You're generally proving you don't have much bargaining power in relationships. It's objectively true 10000000% of the time that if you're a cool attractive guy, getting a cool attractive chick who isn't messed up is better than a cool attractive chick who is messed up. these are legitimate objectively superior traits.

not messed up > messed up

We spend too much time playing this game that everyone is equal. No. Some people ARE inferior and some people ARE superior.

People aren't perfect and you can't get a perfect girl because you're not perfect, and the only perfect beings are beyond romance and relationships....but THERE IS 100% a hierarchy of awesomeness.

4. She's potentially a total parasite and 100% using you and will discard you once you're no longer useful lol

But it doesn't have to be with this way.

You CAN date healthy, hot people...

And I've proven this. Me and my wife got together purely out of lust/attraction and we're both pretty awesome people in our own respects....THEN once we had already been dating for a bit, Russia invaded Ukraine and we were living in Kyiv and...ya know...artillery flew over our head/explosions/fear of dying at any moment....and when we got out....yeah we had baggage lol. Still dealing with it today, but we worked through it and are still working through it together because we decided that we really do care about each other and want the best for each other AFTER we'd already established an attraction-based relationship.

lust -> one category

Compassion and deep bond -> another category of the relationshiop

Obviously there's the whole "well this is the person I sleep with" and that underlies it always to some extent, but the attraction is pure and was proven as such. The compassion is clearly its own distinct thing and not affecting the initial attraction (though it obviously makes us 10x more attracted AFTER, cuz that's how it works...you go through stuff and it makes a stronger bond...but it's not a dependency bond!).

I don't know how to make this any clearer. Anyone with a modicum of intelligence should have this fully understood, at least intellectually (it might take some time to really sink in intuitively).

p.s., If you ever want to help someone with baggage, then JUST HELP THEM. DON'T GET IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM AND DATE THEM lol. true compassion has no strings attached and love/lust is 100% a string.

Are there exceptions to the situation I laid out? I guess sure. If you have super strong self awareness, but everyone thinks they're exception and they're doing it for the right reasons and TOTALLY not making a really toxic cocktail of dependency and trying to fill big insecurities...but it doesn't change the fact that if you truly were awesome, you'd just date a chick who isn't messed up, because, again,

not messed up > messed up...objectively (all other things being equal of course)

[David Sinclair @davidasinclair]

The body remembers youth even when it looks old