This might be the first hot take on how technology tells us how to live our lives, destroying our ability to make human decisions.
The technology in question is the sundial.
From a 3rd century BCE Roman adaptation of a Greek play, as discussed in Kerr’s “The Ordered Day”
@BoredElonMusk I first read this incorrectly as, "I left my wife to have an affair, do I have to console her now that we're over?" because my brain couldn't recognize what it actually said.
@gak_pdx "Kindness is everything", and jail is unkind, and if criminals cause others pain, well, they probably just needed more kindness - where's your checkbook?
The solution to bigger families isn’t more maternity leave.
The solution is higher pay for fathers so their wives can stay home and be mothers.
Duel income trap is anti-family
A man who governs his passions is master of the world. We must either rule them or be ruled by them. It is better to be the hammer than the anvil.
St. Dominic
it’s interesting how when i tell people my wife is pregnant, reactions split by sex, but not how i’d expect
men are genuinely excited.
they offer help, advice, tell stories about their kids or how they can’t wait to have their own.
women pretend to be happy, put on a polite smile, then change the topic.
in hindsight it makes sense. for decades women have been taught that motherhood is the death of self. that a child ends their life instead of enriching it.
men, on the other hand, are rediscovering fatherhood as the only stable experience left in a backward world.
it’s one of the strangest inversions of modernity.
the sex evolved for creation has been brainwashed to fear it.
the sex accused of avoiding responsibility is now the one craving it.
somewhere along the way, fertility was rebranded from power to pathology.
we told women that their womb was a defect to be managed, medicated, or delayed, and called the resulting anxiety “freedom”
the real tragedy of the modern world.
we convinced women that motherhood is a prison, then sold them antidepressants as liberation