"If you can fall in love again & again ... if you are content to get nowhere, just take each day as it comes, if you can forgive as well as forget, if you can keep from growing sour, surly, bitter and cynical, man you’ve got it half licked."
- Henry Miller
When someone is going through a terrible time, saying “I’m with you” is the only thing that matters.
Advice, perspectives, or offers to help are minimally impactful.
The notion that someone is with you is 10x more powerful.
Be a “darkest hour friend” to those you love.
"There’ll never be any shortage of good people in the world. All you got to do is seek them out and get as many of them as possible into your life. Keep the rest the hell out."
— Charlie Munger
@IAmAdamRobinson Love certainly seems like a bonus in comparison to the rare feeling of being truly seen by another person, with all its vulnerability.
@BStulberg 1000%. The hardest part for me IS the discipline to continue prioritizing & following curiosity along the path to finding/developing meaning that will result in fulfillment