@sweatystartup While I can nit pick certain things in this book, this is what I've recommended to newbies for years, it's very good. https://t.co/DeIhzn4DVa
@sweatystartup Echo recommendations to start with John, the other gospels, Acts, Romans. No brainer, imo. Other best suggestion I give newbies is a companion book of some kind to help give the context the Bible itself won't give about the author, audience, and timing... incredibly helpful.
One of the most important frameworks you’ll ever learn for dealing with people is buried inside a simple story.
The frog and the scorpion.
The scorpion asks the frog for a ride across the river.
The frog hesitates… “you’ll sting me.”
The scorpion replies, “I wouldn’t do that. If I sting you, we’ll both drown.”
The frog agrees and lets the scorpion on his back.
Midway across the river, the scorpion stings the frog.
As they both start to sink, the frog croaks out, “Why?”
And the scorpion says, “I couldn’t help it. I’m a scorpion. It’s in my nature.”
That’s the whole lesson.
People will show you who they are.
You just have to believe them.
Don’t argue with the nature of someone’s character.
If someone burns every partner, client, or friend they’ve had, you’re not the exception.
You’re next.
This story gets clearer the more you work with people.
Trust patterns.
Character is destiny.
Underrated advice: The worst mistakes in life are made when you try to do fast what’s meant to be done slow. Real, durable things take a long time to build. Careers. Businesses. Relationships. Health. There are no hacks or shortcuts. The long way is the right way.
Quite the line from @SahilBloom:
"Happy people love people, use things, and worship the divine; unhappy people use people, love things, and worship themselves."
@markbrooks Not to take away from your point at all, because it's valid - there's a balance to be had. Many software businesses have created unbelievable complexity & waste by 'overbuilding' because they thought they were going to be the next Facebook. Shoot for intermediate term thinking!
A lesson I wish I learned earlier:
No one knows what they're doing. Even the people you admire. Everyone is stumbling along. Some are just willing to stumble enough that they find their way into something magical.
@shannonm Clean up from this is going to be unreal...can you imagine giving out bitlocker keys to end users over the phone while you walk them through the recovery console? Cloud cleanup is terrible too.