@amandapalmer "how you do anything is how you do everything" is really triggering for me. I'm struggling with depression, and one of my touch points is remembering the good things I've done, even when everything I'm doing right now feels like a disaster - I have to believe I'm not a disaster
@TheLastMerlin Since this is an ongoing and pervasive issue, then it is something that I will look into. Thank you for answering my question; now I have a place to start. I'm horrified that this is happening to you, and I'm sorry my efforts to learn have been poorly worded.
@rijaydenpatrick @MadMaxFlapper @Jcardairy1@Imani_Barbarin Who does that?? What are some examples? I'm not aware of this - I'm sad think that happens, but I wasn't aware of this. (oh, and be careful who you call "abled" as an insult - not all disabled people are on the same page as you - like me)
@ShannonDingle @rijaydenpatrick @Jcardairy1@Imani_Barbarin It sounds like some in this thread are calling advocacy, even for kids too young or too severely disabled to speak for themselves as being "in disabled spaces" - making it "about them" I'm truly trying to understand the distinction here.
@EbThen @Imani_Barbarin What do you see as the distinction? When a parent advocates for their severely disabled child, or one who is too young to advocate for themselves, when are they advocates and when are they making it about themselves? I trust you don't mean they shouldn't say or do anything...
@CRowanHawthorn @Imani_Barbarin well, good - we are all in agreement... The vast majority of parents I've interacted with as a peds rehab nurse have been selfless to the point of me encouraging them to take more self-care. So sorry (and kind of shocked) that there are parents out there not respecting their kids
@EbThen @Imani_Barbarin I'm coming for a place of being a rehab nurse to severely disabled kids, many have been harmed by the healthcare system, or would be except for their pitbull parents. I agree with you - those who can speak for themselves, but have been rolled over by their parents have a gripe
who said it did? not me... and in my 40 plus years as a nurse, I don't think I've ever heard of someone or seen someone "appropriate" disability... this thread is baffling to me - who did something wrong or offensive that started all this?
@chrislhayes Yes, saying that is anti-Semitic... it was anti-Catholic back in the day to wonder if a Catholic could hold office because they might be loyal to the Pope first. Holding our side to a higher standard is, luckily, a low hurdle
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