I’ve been asked about this and have wanted to make a more general post about my career path for awhile and what it’s looked like. Yes, getting out of PE and into more of a corp dev role was primarily a lifestyle decision as my wife and I had our first baby some months ago.
My career path has been very atypical for someone in the M&A industry. I (non-metaphorically or sarcastically) grew up in a middle class home - dad was blue collar and mom in the medical field. I had no idea what I was doing coming out of HS but knew that I liked learning about the stock market and had a few HS classes that helped me build a passion for business / finance. I went to a small school in a rural town and majored in finance and accounting - thought I wanted to be a financial advisor.
There are a few M&A shops in my city - a few PE and a few IBs but I really didn’t know about that industry until I got involved in my school’s finance club. Ended up getting an internship with one of the independent sponsor PE shops near me, worked during school and landed a full time offer there post-undergrad. I thought it was the coolest thing ever and loved being part of those deals. However, there were some clear culture / pay issues which I overlooked for awhile but those issues made it clear to me that I didn’t want to be there forever.
I was about 3 years into my career when my wife and I got married, then got pregnant (unexpectedly). It was a shock. After a few sour deals and some long weeks/months with lots of travel, I decided I wasn’t going to do this type of career with a family; just didn’t want to do that to my wife. I ended up landing a role that was a near ideal move for me - Corp dev (not M&A focused), local to us, gave me a slight bump in base salary. The biggest winner, though, is that it allows me to log off at 5/5:30 every day.
Could I have grinded it out in my prior role and worked my way up to continue getting carry on deals? Yes. Could I have found a different PE shop with better comp and bigger deals? Yes. Could I have gone the reverse route and switched to IB for better comp and sell side experience? Yes. Instead, I chose to go to a really fast growing business nearby and get solid experience on the corp side for good comp in our LCOL area while I give my wife more time at home to be present with her and our baby.
My prior role wasn’t crazy demanding in terms of the overall M&A space - I had the occasional 40 hour weeks and the occasional 80 hour weeks so I was averaging about 60. Most would say that’s not that bad. I agree - but the unpredictability of the firm made things difficult, and I was raised in a family where no matter what was going on, we sat down for dinner together every night. I was not interested in letting a job jeopardize that.
The biggest career lesson or advice that I can give someone is to not place your whole identity in your career. I’m still very early in my career and excited about my professional development and where I will end up, but most importantly I’m so blessed to be a Christian, a husband, and a father and I consider those to be my most important titles. Your career should be a tool that you use to carry out your purpose or goals in life; it’s a means, not an end. It’s in this way that you will find true purpose and fulfillment for yourself.
@valuedassociate Appreciate this best.
Was better balancing work life the reason you left PE?
Have you considered SMB ownership route - or, why Corp dev?
Thx
Thoughts with Corp Dev Guy, #1
Summer (the season) should always start on Memorial Day and end on Labor Day. First reason for this is vibes. Second, why would anyone want summer to start on the solstice? Third, June 21 is a random date & makes no sense. Debate ⬇️
A new Rockstar Games review on Glassdoor from an employee working on GTA 6 says:
- They’re expected to complete tasks that usually take 5-6 months in 2-3 months
- Work schedule has been hectic since last month and they’re working overtime
- The last few weeks have been a toll on their mental health
- Some colleagues had to work till 3AM in the morning after completing their shifts
It seems like Rockstar is pushing hard right now to get the game out in November.
AOC says "rivers were on fire" because of corporations like Deloitte "pouring chemicals" into waterways.
Deloitte is an accounting, consulting, and tax services firm.
No idea what she's talking about.
These guys had a total stranglehold on the Northeastern US paper market but refused to adapt to industry changes and were forced into a distressed exit
Why aren’t any of these at risk hospitals publishing their full accounting so everyone can see where they spend their money ?
All but one group of hospitals that I have looked at potentially investing in, spend so much on consultants and fees that it’s no wonder they are at risk
Plus, I have NEVER seen an industry that is worse than hospitals when it comes to buying medications and items like implants, screws, other devices. They overpay for everything.
And then when you show them how to save money, their “supply chain” employees resist any change.
They are so set in their ways, it’s a shock more don’t go out of business.
Prove me wrong.
My friend is in corporate sales
Makes $350k a year
Chill schedule
Boats every weekend
Home for lunch and dinner daily
Lots of family time
Very little stress
Sales careers are criminally underrated
Why aren’t more people doing this?!
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